Hi Girls...

Hey everyone...

I'm back from my few days of mourning. I just want to thank everyone for being so supportive in this awful time for me and my family, by sending your thoughts and prayers via the board, FM, facebook, email, everything. Those who did, it really means a lot to me.

I'm still in a really bad place though...but I have to start getting back to my normal routine because sitting around here crying isn't going to do anything. I just wasn't ready for it...it happened too fast. I still needed his comfort and warmth. It wasn't supposed to happen this way...he was supposed to take pictures with me in my wedding dress, and be there to nuzzle my first baby.

I know I'm supposed to be an adult, but right now, I just feel like a little girl who misses her cat

Luckily, FH has been really great. Even though Angel caused him such suffering the past few years as the allergies developed and worsened, he was just as bad as I was, and cried with me all night. He never took it out on him or blamed him for it. He said he would try everything in his power to comfort me as much as Angel was able to and would take that over from him, but not to let him get chubby and to not give in if he starts begging for too many treats Oddly enough, the thought of FH sitting by the cabinet staring up and meowing for a treat comforted me.

So I just want to say thank you again for all your support, I know that some people were wondering what was going on, but I just needed some time to snap out of it a bit. It's going to take a long time, and it's no where near there yet, but knowing that people care helps a lot. You girls are awesome

I have barely been on the site for a few days, and completely missed that this happened. I am so so so sorry for your loss, Ali, and I hope that all of your great memories are of comfort to you. I had a dog who passed away years ago now, and I still miss Brandy. But I remember him with smiles now, not so much with sadness. I hope the same happens for you as soon as possible. I am so sorry, and if there's anything I can do, please let me know.

I hope you're feeling better - I know how hard it is to lose a pet....I still grieve for my dog who passed away 9 years ago. It's a huge loss. I truly believe, however, that my 'woo' is waiting for me at the rainbow bridge and please believe that your angel will be there too.

If you need to cry, vent, scream or laugh about something, please feel free to FM me.

Oh yayyyyyyyyyy!!!! Ali, we missed you!!! LIW def hasnt been the same with you gone! I hope you are feeling better. Welcome back

SO SORRY for you loss! I had to put my dog down 9 years ago and I still think about her...she was a great dog. And I know Angel was a great cat to you. Try to remember the good things and know she is in a better place in 'kittyland' thinking of you!

I really am so sorry for your loss... Just try to remember all of the happy times you had with your kitty..

hugs and kisses to you..when my dog passed away it was the end of he world for me ..doesnt mean your not acting like an adult...i am so so so sorry!

Awww! We missed you! Im so sorry We are all here if you ever need to talk.

It will get easier in the months to come...I promise...loosing a pet is very hard but soon you will remember Angel with smiles and laughs.

Welcome back Ali

Welcome back.

Awwww....bu yaay at the same time. Awww for I still feel sooo sad. I'm going to be the same way for my kitty.... But yaay b/c you are back, and we all missed you!

welcome back and soo sorry for your loss..

u know i heart you,u know im here for ya..ive told u b4 take all the time u need..we r not going anywhere..but its great to have u back

Aww hun I am glad to see you on here. I totally understand- losing a pet is losing a family member. Hang in there- each day will get better.

welcome back