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laural2979 Posted:

Re: Has anyone snoop on FH email?

I would NEVER look at his email. That's his personal business and I think it's an incredible invasion of privacy.

AeroJenn Posted:

Re: Has anyone snoop on FH email?

yea i've done that before. just out of curiosity really. i dont think theres anything wrong with checking his email once in a blue moon, but I wouldnt make a habit of it. And also....she needs to realize WHY she's doing it. If she's doing it to catch him in the act of something, then she's got a lot of trust issues that they need to work on. If she's just doing it for the hell of it, or to check it for him, then whatever, no biggie.

ETA: just wanted to clarify that he's given me his passwords and stuff before -- its not like I've snooped to find passwords, etc. And I also allow him to check my email if he wants. If you've got nothing to hide why would it be an invasion of privacy? You share everything else.
werock0709 Posted:

Re: Has anyone snoop on FH email?

No way.....he barely checks it unless we order something online. Besides that....he has over 6000 INBOX, yeah you heard me right, 6000. I have better things to do with my time
RGV07 Posted:

Re: Has anyone snoop on FH email?

6000 in his inbox, wow, he sure is not checking his email.

NY031978 Posted:

Re: Has anyone snoop on FH email?

i have...but i havent done that in a while!

well actually he reads all his mail while im right next to him so theres really no reason to do it!
RGV07 Posted:

Re: Has anyone snoop on FH email?

just wanted to clarify that he's given me his passwords and stuff before --



wow, i wish!!!!!!
Ericab1980 Posted:

Re: Has anyone snoop on FH email?

I used to snoop my ex's email..but at the time I wasn't trusting him and I guess I felt like I had to.

However I'm so proud to say I have yet to feel the need to check FH emails. I have his pw cause we share some stuff and uses the same pw but I would never access his account unless he tells me to, IE I'm on the PC and he wants me to check his email cause he's lazy lol

I don't reccomd it, I think it's wrong and if FH checked my email i'd be pissed
charisma Posted:

Re: Has anyone snoop on FH email?

ditto to that

HamptonsBride Posted:

Re: Has anyone snoop on FH email?

FH said he'd walk out the door if I ever did that...and I'd be truly pissed if he did it to me...FH talks to a few of his exes...and so do i...we trust each other and are honest so theres no reason to snoop...doesn't matter if your are married or dating...respect and trust and your privacy are still important.

werock0709 Posted:

Re: Has anyone snoop on FH email?

Posted by gibi78

6000 in his inbox, wow, he sure is not checking his email.
I swear to god!!! Maybe it's over that now. I don't know And I don't wanna. He's one of those people that le mail sit around too. Until we get the collection calls at 8 f u c k i n am in the morning. Including Sundays. Men....
hmv12 Posted:

Re: Has anyone snoop on FH email?

Posted by gibi78

just wanted to clarify that he's given me his passwords and stuff before --



wow, i wish!!!!!!


My FH and I have given eachother our passwords, but most of the time we use the same e-mail....We share everything and I would never snoop if we had separate e-mails..
AeroJenn Posted:

Re: Has anyone snoop on FH email?

Posted by gibi78

guys thank you for your opinion, i also wrote on another message board , some of the responses were fropm guys, who were bias or was clearly not in a relationship and was saying my friend is a little insecure about bf communicating with ex.


I really think it depends on the situation. My FH doesnt talk to his exes, so when I've checked his email it wasnt to try to 'find' anything. But, I have to say....I'm the type of person who thinks that when a relationship is over, theres no need to communicate with the other person anymore. So, if FH did talk to his exes and it worried me a little...i'd be snooping too. Lets put it this way....i can see where she's coming from and I dont blame her. BUT she really should talk to her bf and tell him she's feeling jealous and isnt thrilled that he's still talking to his ex. JMO.
bettybcafe Posted:

Re: Has anyone snoop on FH email?

That depends...did she do it for the hell of it? Or was she suspecting something? its hard to say tho...like if I had no reason to look at his email or suspect that hes been acting shaddy I wouldnt do it..but if I am suspecting or see him acting weird...I may check..but before doing that I would def. go to his face first and ask him up front.

Pencils Posted:

Re: Has anyone snoop on FH email?

I would NEVER read my fiance's email, snail mail, whatever. I don't read his bulletin board or forum posts, either, and I know where he hangs out online (although most of them are NY Giants related so it's not very interesting to me!)

I trust my fiance implicitly. I wouldn't be with him if I couldn't. And I think he deserves his privacy. If he wants to go online and complain about his sloppy fiancee, he can. It's OK. Because I do it too, reveresed.

Unless the person has a really good reason--more than one--for feeling suspicious about his or her partner, I think email and other snooping says a lot more about the person doing the snooper than the 'snoopee.' That said person is suspicious, sneaky, and possibly untrustworthy. It's hard to trust other people when you know you yourself can't be trusted.

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