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Original post by RGV07

Jan 29, 2007 02:28 PM

bettybcafe Posted: Jan 29, 2007 03:17 PM

Re: Has anyone snoop on FH email?

Posted by gibi78

since she was online with his account, that she just check it , just to see for the heck of it.

FYI: Everytime she logs into the internet through his comp, he already automatically on it. So she had access/

I c. so it was just curiosity? I would def. bring it up to her boyfriend..I mean what did the email say? Was it really that bad?

brittny817 Posted: Jan 29, 2007 03:18 PM

Re: Has anyone snoop on FH email?

NO way! He's never given me any reason to do so. I would be really po'd if he did it to me!

dplehat Posted: Jan 29, 2007 03:20 PM

Re: Has anyone snoop on FH email?

In most cases ex's can not be friends. In some rare cases it works out but usually one of the people still has feelings involved.

RGV07 Posted: Jan 29, 2007 03:21 PM

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Future Mrs. Posted: Jan 29, 2007 03:22 PM

Re: Has anyone snoop on FH email?

I did it once, when we first started dating serioiusly and it was a really bad thing b/c the guilt was eating me up inside. I just kept thinking that if he ever did that to me, I'd probably have broken up with him (at that time....we were dating a couple of months)
I think its a huge invasion of privacy; and there is just no reason to do it.

eunicsd006 Posted: Jan 29, 2007 03:23 PM

Re: Has anyone snoop on FH email?

i used too but that was way back when i was a teen....now i could cares less a phase i grew out of indeed

Marchbride07 Posted: Jan 29, 2007 03:25 PM

Re: Has anyone snoop on FH email?

I would look but be prepared for what to find...because it IS WRONG so if you find something bad....you are opening a Pandora's box in my opinion!

AeroJenn Posted: Jan 29, 2007 03:25 PM

Re: Has anyone snoop on FH email?

Posted by gibi78

um, i dont want to go into details of the email,but one facts i can say she the ex, wonders if he still misses her!!!! that all i can say on this!!!

see.....this is what makes it hard. The fact that she read this is going to make her more suspicious (and rightfully so) and its going to eat at her. Sorry, but if this were me, I'd tell FH that he either cuts the cr@p and stops having contact with her, or he can have her all he wants cuz I'm out. There is NO REASON to continue to talk to an ex. You're exes for a reason -- because it didnt work out. End of story, its over. Its disrespectful to the person he's dating now to still be talking to his ex.

MF9282 Posted: Jan 29, 2007 05:15 PM

Re: Has anyone snoop on FH email?

Nope FH doesn't even care for the computer unless he is looking at ESPN. He calls me a cyber geek for being on LIW all day

LyseeH Posted: Jan 29, 2007 05:27 PM

Re: Has anyone snoop on FH email?

I have looked at my FH email. He has my passwords and I have his. He looks at my myspace...its no thing...plus its not like I look all the time...when i do, I am usually bored with his emails!

PegaLega Posted: Jan 29, 2007 05:47 PM

Re: Has anyone snoop on FH email?

THis is my opinion and FH and I agree...if you do snoop you cant throw a fit about what youfind or read b/c you shouldnt have done it in the first place. If you were that curious or that worried you should have asked

betani Posted: Jan 29, 2007 06:14 PM

Re: Has anyone snoop on FH email?

i check fh's email a lot, but because he wants me too/i need to. i only really do it when he's expecting something important (job info, etc.) and then occasionally (once every 2 months or so) because he NEVER checks it. he's given me his username and password for this reason, so it's not snooping.

as for your friend, i think she's overreacting and really didn't have a right to go into his account. just because you're together doesn't mean you lose all privacy. he's entitled to the relationships he wants to have unless they're inappropriate (ie, he was talking about cheating with the ex). if she feels that uncomfortable about his relationship with her, she should talk to him about it instead of searching through his stuff.