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WHY?!

Would my FH Xgirl write to him on FB 'hey'

This is out of nowhere...they broke up 3 years ago and never communicated ever since.

Weirdo! (when i started to go out with my FH, she requested me 5 times on FB and i rejected all of them).

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Bc she wants what she can't have~!!!

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you are not alone- FH and I broke up in high school for a few months and we kinda both were seeing someone else (not dating per se but just with someone else) anyway- that girl still feels the need to text& call FH on the regular- 7 years later!!!! can you say psycho!!! I HATE HATE HATE her- she made my life so miserable those few months we were apart its not even funny...
the other day she called and asked him about her car because she said it was making a 'funny noise,'

ummm...hello- call a mechanic- and if you really don't want to call a mechanic- call your brother or father- NOT my future husband!!!!

REALLY!?!?!
Anyway- i told FH he better tell her not to call or text again because she has one motive only!!!!
I completely understand how you feel!!!!!!!!!

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Nut jobs!!!

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Ugh! Is there anything worse than crazy ex-gfs?!?!? My FH has one too but luckily he always tells her to take a hike when she calls. Seriously, this has been going on for 3 years! She'll pop up out of no where and call him randomly, he'll tell her to stop calling, she'll stop for about 6 months, and then the process starts all over again! With Verizon you can block numbers for 3 months at a time so I've blocked her number but once I forgot to renew it and she called and said to him 'I've tried calling but the number was blocked.' Who does that???

Have him delete the 'hey' from his wall, that'll drive her nuts hahaha

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It's definitely because she wants what she can't have. Fhs ex cheated on him with his best friend brother who he was really close with. I saw her a few times in the first two year of our relationship and everytime she saw him in front of me shed be all over him. Thankfully we don't see her anymore because the friends of his who were friends with her aren't any more.

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Ugh I would be furious if an ex contacted my FH

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Posted by brads girl

Ugh I would be furious if an ex contacted my FH

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THIS!

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Wow, I'm very lucky. FH's ex was crazy while they were dating but I met her years after the fact and we got along so well. FH wants nothing to do with her in his life and based on their past, I totally understand and respect that, but she's never been anything but sweet to me.

I wouldn't worry about that girl though! She's clearly got nothing on you!

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Posted by mmordocco

Bc she wants what she can't have~!!!

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Exactly what I was thinking!!

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I know, I trust my FH. When it happened he called me and told me...

I know she mad bc I'm the one with the ring on my finger! Oh Well!

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my fh his ex when we first started dating like probably 3 months in I guess she stalked his fb saw we were dating and then started drunk texting him at 3 am how she thought I was just a friend (we had been friends for years before we got together) then went on and on how I was just a rebound from her (they dated like 2 months! had been broken up for like 8 months) and I think she called me fat meanwhile she's bigger then I ever was. he had to block her # because she wouldn't stop for like an hour. I sent her a nice nasty message on fb too and blocked her lol. she's been gone since all that. obviously not a rebound!

another one of his ex's keeps trying to add him on fb recently. she just got married too so it's like why? they also broke up like 7 years ago? never talked since then. ex gfs are nuts. so are ex bfs. I've had tons of ex's come out of nowhere since being engaged. it's always that drunk text at 3-4 am. people are trying to sleep lol.

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When FH and I started dating, he was still on/off with his ex. She, understandably, hated me and she and her friends stalked me on FB, yelled nasty things if they saw me, and even went so far as to call my job and say horrible things about me to whomever picked up. Needless to say, I didn't like her too much either.

She's now married, to a guy she knew while she and FH were dating, and we hadnt heard from her in at least 5 years. Well, about 10 months before we got engaged, she messaged him on FB, just saying she forgave him for everything he did to her (which he really didnt do anything bad), and she hopes were happy. He didnt write back, but shortly after, his grandmother passed away. I told him to contact her and let her know bc she had been close with his grandmother when they dated. He did, only after I said I'd do it myself if he didnt. She thanked him and sent her condolences. We haven't heard from her since.

Most girls are crazy, and need to hold onto what they thought made them happy, even if the guy is over them. If you trust him, just let it go. She is clearly unhappy and looking for him to give her attention so she can tell herself that he's not over her. Any extra attention you guys give her will fuel her craziness.

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This happened to me too! FH and I were already dating for a little while, but I guess his ex got wind of it. She started texting him asking him to hang out. She text him while I was with him so I got to see the whole thing and laugh. The best part is that he told her that he was with me and she said to just leave me to go hang out with her! Yeah...ok. Try not to let it bother you. Look for the humor in it - what must be going on in her life to try and break up a relationship that's obviously strong? Sucks to be her!

It seems like a good amount of us have had this problem. I guess it's because we all snagged some hot guys

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Posted by cj52514


It seems like a good amount of us have had this problem. I guess it's because we all snagged some hot guys

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Hahaha that's right!!

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That's definitely random!! If you trust FH, I wouldn't let it bother you though. If you overthink it it's just going to make you crazy. FH's ex and I definitely had our fair share of unnecessary problems and it actually all started because of one of my BM's who loves drama and knew her from school. Nothing has happened in a while because I just don't feed into it anymore - we're all adults and it was just childish nonsense. In all honesty, I have nothing against the girl and wish her nothing but the best, everyone has a past.

I do have a co-worker who is BEST friends with her FH's ex and that blows my mind. She yells at him when he talks to her but she hangs out with the girl - ridiculous.

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The same thing is happening with me! My fiance's ex keeps texting him! With verizon you can block the number but if you have an iPhone and have iMessage they can still get through- it's so beyond frustrating...naturally he doesn't think anything of it but I find it so annoying since I was never a crazy ex gf.