i accidentally called my mom with my knee.. (damn iphone) so i hear my mom screaming 'hellloooooooooo!!?!' so i kinda had to answer instead of hanging up.
im so fkn stressed with this wedding. i need help but every1 fkn sucksssssss in my life and i have to do everything myself
i cant take it
barbtony
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Oh Barb!!!!!!!!!!!
Is there anything I can help you with?????
Ray8183
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Can I help.
AwaitingAugust
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if you need anything, i will totally try to help (even if it means coming over and helping you make your favors or something)
I have definitely felt that way at some point during the planning process as well
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its so sad no offense to you ladies
but its sad that the only help ive received emotionally physically was from LIW girls
maybe im too embarassed to ask for help but WTFFFFFFFFFFF
no1 offers?? i feel like any1 in my life i ask for help.. i will end up going uot of my way..like i have to pay them to be my friend.
its pathetic
AwaitingAugust
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i'm sure they're just intimidated by your awesomeness
ETA: i understand what you mean though ... but it's hard for others to understand what we're going through when they're going through their own (and different) bull
barbtony
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You don't have to pay me to be your friend - what can I help you with?
But I completely understand about how LIW is really the only support you get through this process!!!!!!!!!!
MrsC2010
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i feel like that sometimes too...but maybe they dont know u need help. try asking them...im sure ppl will help out if you give them something specific to do.
Ray8183
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Barb,
I really want to help. I do understand my family don't even ask how is the planning or about my health.
Future Mrs H
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Barb- i totally understand what you are going through. Noone is helping Jerry and I with anything. I dont have alot of time to help with physical things but if you need any research done, phone calls or things like that I can help. Or even just a hug I can do that.
flibbertigibbet
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dude some peoples are LAME. your mother/sister/female cousins/etc should be offering to cover you and get some sh*t done with you.
hang in there bubbz...you got plenty of time still and just like the rest of the girls... i'll help with anything i can. just ask.
i mean, i'm not coming over to play COD or take you to OCB or anything else with acronyms but... you need me to do anything else - sure.
but mostly. just relax and take a step back. you, i'm sure, will have an AWESOME wedding.
grkbarbie
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thank u ladies SOOO MUCH!!!
its not MYYY family that doesnt help.. its every1 around me. the only time certain ppl ask about our wedding is when it affects them..which is only about the guestlist! im sick of it.
ETA, my mother is just clueless..shes been very supportive, so its not her. its every1 else that s*cks
barbtony
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Sometimes you just need to step back and take a breathe - then a shot!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You'll get through it!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Don't hesitate to ask for help!!!!!!!!!!
luvly73
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so sorry u r going through this but soon ur really close and soon it will jus be u and DH and once u r there for each other thats all that really matters...
Ray8183
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I am still here if you need me.
grkbarbie
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ok.. ladies.. how do i make petal cones lmao
luvly73
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i thought all you do is print the design on the paper then fold it into the cone shape and glue the sucker together....but i could be wrong...
i wanna do them but then i realized i would have to pay extra for petals!!! damn it
NYYankeeGirl72
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Barbs!!! Honey I know exactly how you feel!! I am in the same boat, but that doesn't mean I can't help out. Listen if you need help, just ask chickie!!
