HONEST ANSWERS PLEASE

Original post by grkbarbie

Mar 01, 2010 02:02 PM

how often do you call your fh /he calls u WHILE YOURE AT WORK??

Ray8183 Posted: Mar 01, 2010 02:08 PM

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Posted by Jna2010

we like have a schedule lol, its just habit

1 - he calls me when hes on his way to work
2- i call when i get to work
3 - he or i call mid morning
4 - he or i call in the afternoon

That's our schedule too.

AdriandSteve Posted: Mar 01, 2010 02:08 PM

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I don't normally call FH at work unless I have to.

FH calls me occasionally at work but not often. Maybe 4x's a month tops!

But we email back and forth.

kris_gets_hitched Posted: Mar 01, 2010 02:09 PM

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Maybe one call a day. Maybe one or two e-mails.

I don't see much of a point in us talking while we're both at work.

Sandradv121 Posted: Mar 01, 2010 02:09 PM

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Don't know. I hate my job so I sit on the phone all day lol. FH will call me 3 times usually. But lately its been more because the wedding is coming and planning is picking up pace again (the little things are killing us).

latinaj Posted: Mar 01, 2010 02:09 PM

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its also diff for couples that dont live together.....i live w/fh and we commute to the city together...i like my work time to be my 'me' time

AngnShaun Posted: Mar 01, 2010 02:10 PM

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i rarely call him... he works with his hands so its difficult for him to pick up the phone...

he called me 6 times before 11am today...

ETA: I rarely have anything to say... but he likes to call me to ***** about something that his dad said or that someone did...

grkbarbie Posted: Mar 01, 2010 02:10 PM

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Posted by kris_gets_hitched

Maybe one call a day. Maybe one or two e-mails.

I don't see much of a point in us talking while we're both at work.

well said!

Future Mrs H Posted: Mar 01, 2010 02:11 PM

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It depends on the day. If FH doesnt have a long route that day he will call me a few times at work and then at night around 9. But like today- he has a long driving route I only spoke with him once. We talk alot during the day since we dont live together and I dont see him everyday.

RitasEngaged Posted: Mar 01, 2010 02:11 PM

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Posted by grkbarbie

Posted by kris_gets_hitched

Maybe one call a day. Maybe one or two e-mails.

I don't see much of a point in us talking while we're both at work.

well said!

ITA - we either bbm if we have something more to say or one call - either he calls me or i call him

jennybee Posted: Mar 01, 2010 02:14 PM

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I usually call to make sure he's up (he works from home now). Then it depends, if we have something to discuss/plan/ask, maybe once or twice more. If not, I usually call on the way home. No texting unless I send him a funny pic of me to make him laugh...

netsirk10 Posted: Mar 01, 2010 02:16 PM

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honestly, i HATE talking on the phone. the first three years of our relationship was long distance so all we did was talk on the phone, aim, etc. now that we live together i don't really see a point in calling unless it is something urgent. otherwise we MAYBE text once or twice a day now and then.

grrulz Posted: Mar 01, 2010 02:16 PM

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he txts a lot!! calls me a couple of times during the day i am exteremely busy that i don't even have time to call him

miamimerger Posted: Mar 01, 2010 02:16 PM

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not at all, but we talk through Gmail-Chat :).

joctorre Posted: Mar 01, 2010 02:17 PM

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Fh is not very good at responding to me. But now that we both work from home (I'm downstairs and he's upstairs), we text a little bit and call each other on the intercom on our phones...

If I'm out of the house, he likes to text a LOT... I hate talking to him on the phone bc he hates the phone (with me only apparently, though!!!)

Usually, it's just silly stuff anyway. If we do have to talk to each other abotu dinner or shopping or plans, then it depends.

We text A LOT though. From inside the same house!!!!

GlitterBox24 Posted: Mar 01, 2010 02:17 PM

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We live together, so i think tis diff for us also.. during the day if i have to tell him something i will text him and he will text me... we usually talk once a day for 1 min but thats it.. i have the rest of the day with him

flibbertigibbet Posted: Mar 01, 2010 02:19 PM

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he's a teacher so unless there's an emergency ... we never talk-talk during the day. we text though maybe twice a day about stupid stuff.

RGEC47 Posted: Mar 01, 2010 02:19 PM

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Posted by Jenna_and_John

Lately, not at all, we'll usually just e-mail.

Same

allornil Posted: Mar 01, 2010 02:23 PM

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he calls me every morning to see if I got into the office ok and how I'm feeling.

He'll also call me in the late afternoon before he goes home. he leaves before I do.

Sometimes he'll call to see if I want him to drive to my office and bring lunch.

We email silly things to each other during the day randomly and text randomly.

We've been living together for years so honestly, how can he have so much to say to me during the day? lol

My FH is prob an exception though. I've written before that he's up my *** 24/7...especially lately that he's turned into groomzilla.