no. We've been though so much, that it would seem unnatural for us not to be together. As far as I'm concerned we are already married, weh are just throwing a party.
This is how I feel too.
Me three
laughinlala
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Maybe about spending soo much $$$ on one day but not about marrying my best friend -that is actually what keeps me sane through all this-
LaurenluvsTJ
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I get nervous about my life changing- I don't live with FH, I still live with my parents. We were going to move in together before the wedding, but decided not to in order to save money. That will be a big change, and so will changing my last name, and becoming a wife- being a 'Real grown-up' and all that stuff. But I have no doubts about marrying FH, I know he is the right one. We haven't been together nearly as long as many of the couples here, but in the year and a half we have known, each other, we have already been so through so much, and our love has only grown stronger.
dita531
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Sometimes, if we have an argument which is 99% of the time wedding related. We always talk things through which in the end just assures me that he is the right man for me.
JessicaM.
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I live my life by this
' IF a man will begin in certainties he shall end in doubts; but if he will be content to begin in doubts he shall end in certainties'
Sir Francis Bacon
Doubts of ALL kinds are normal. Nothing in this world is certain. yes, FH is my best friend and I love him dearly. we have been together for 10 plus years- he is a part of my soul. But it doesn't mean that I don't wonder about the future- not just about him but about me too. The thing is whether you're ok with it. the reason I am is, just like any other time since we have been in each others lives, whenever I do doubt, he somehow manages to relieve my mind,,,even if he never knew what I was thinking.
It's fine to take the love blinders off every once in a while and give it a really good think session. Good luck.
kissy27
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not at all! We have been through our ups & downs but who hasn't! FH is one special guy & I have become the person I am today because of him & the situations that we have grown from! Every fight & every discussion is a new learning experience...If I was not 100% sure I would have never accepted when FH asked me!
buggiegirl
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Posted by JessicaM.
I live my life by this
' IF a man will begin in certainties he shall end in doubts; but if he will be content to begin in doubts he shall end in certainties'
Sir Francis Bacon
Doubts of ALL kinds are normal. Nothing in this world is certain. yes, FH is my best friend and I love him dearly. we have been together for 10 plus years- he is a part of my soul. But it doesn't mean that I don't wonder about the future- not just about him but about me too. The thing is whether you're ok with it. the reason I am is, just like any other time since we have been in each others lives, whenever I do doubt, he somehow manages to relieve my mind,,,even if he never knew what I was thinking.
It's fine to take the love blinders off every once in a while and give it a really good think session. Good luck.
Jess- THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!! You are truly the voice of reason
