Honeymoon woes/vent
Fh and I are paying for everything outside of my wedding dress and shower for the wedding. I am going to have to pay for part of my bach party most likely and maybe a breakfast the next day for the OOT guests.
We would also be paying for the honeymoon. Knowing this the entire family keeps insisting to ask us where we are going. I keep having to come up with nicer excuses to avoid the subject of flat out saying we don't have the money. Fh said by me saying we don't have money for it that it sounds like i am begging for $$ for the honeymoon which I am not. He knows this but he says he can sense people are thinking that. I mean what do you want me to say? Oh yea we are going to hawaii or tahitti or something like that when I know it is not true?
I mean fh and I should be living together all ready but I can't seem to get money together in order to move out with saving up for the wedding. Fh only has a few extra bucks left over once his bills are paid off and he gives me his share of the wedding so what do you want us to do? CHARGE IT? NO!!! I rather not go to one at all. I am praying the college makes me full time with a raise this way I am no longer working two part time jobs and this way I can work another semi part time job a few nights a week to earn extra cash to put to a honeymoon and other expenses.
We figured we can just plan something last minute once we figure out if we have some cash together or even wait a few months after to go. But yet our families keep asking me!
What would you say?
We would also be paying for the honeymoon. Knowing this the entire family keeps insisting to ask us where we are going. I keep having to come up with nicer excuses to avoid the subject of flat out saying we don't have the money. Fh said by me saying we don't have money for it that it sounds like i am begging for $$ for the honeymoon which I am not. He knows this but he says he can sense people are thinking that. I mean what do you want me to say? Oh yea we are going to hawaii or tahitti or something like that when I know it is not true?
I mean fh and I should be living together all ready but I can't seem to get money together in order to move out with saving up for the wedding. Fh only has a few extra bucks left over once his bills are paid off and he gives me his share of the wedding so what do you want us to do? CHARGE IT? NO!!! I rather not go to one at all. I am praying the college makes me full time with a raise this way I am no longer working two part time jobs and this way I can work another semi part time job a few nights a week to earn extra cash to put to a honeymoon and other expenses.
We figured we can just plan something last minute once we figure out if we have some cash together or even wait a few months after to go. But yet our families keep asking me!
What would you say?
