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House after wedding?????

Bee12 Posted:

House after wedding?????

Do you plan on owning a home after the wedding? Im sooo stressed .. I dont know if I can budget for another big transaction again ..

I guess we will be budgeting our whole lives ....
alicia6650 Posted:

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we bought the house first!!! Which saves us the after-wedding purchase...BUT we are paying a mortgage while paying for the wedding! No fun!

allornil Posted:

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Posted by alicia6650

we bought the house first!!! Which saves us the after-wedding purchase...BUT we are paying a mortgage while paying for the wedding! No fun!



yeah you have no idea how much I hate that one. :(

FutureJOC Posted:

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Yes... after the wedding is over any money that we receive as gifts from the wedding will be going directly towards a house and we will continue to save for one and then hopefully start looking about 6 months after

PazzaRagazza Posted:

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Posted by alicia6650

we bought the house first!!! Which saves us the after-wedding purchase...BUT we are paying a mortgage while paying for the wedding! No fun!



we did the same!!! We bought a condo in Babylon Village pay mortgage and the wedding but I wouldnt have it any other way.

My advice to anyone is be realistic with your budget!!!! Everyone would love to live in a mansion.... but dont over extend your self. We bought an awesome condo in Babylon Village which is exactly what we wanted and we stayed within our budget!
allornil Posted:

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Posted by PazzaRagazza


Posted by alicia6650

we bought the house first!!! Which saves us the after-wedding purchase...BUT we are paying a mortgage while paying for the wedding! No fun!



we did the same!!! We bought a condo in Babylon Village pay mortgage and the wedding but I wouldnt have it any other way.

My advice to anyone is be realistic with your budget!!!! Everyone would love to live in a mansion.... but dont over extend your self. We bought an awesome condo in Babylon Village which is exactly what we wanted and we stayed within our budget!



you love it because you bought a condo! lol

you dont havta pay for a collapsed cesspool.

***runs away and cries in corner!
PazzaRagazza Posted:

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Posted by allornil


Posted by PazzaRagazza


Posted by alicia6650

we bought the house first!!! Which saves us the after-wedding purchase...BUT we are paying a mortgage while paying for the wedding! No fun!



we did the same!!! We bought a condo in Babylon Village pay mortgage and the wedding but I wouldnt have it any other way.

My advice to anyone is be realistic with your budget!!!! Everyone would love to live in a mansion.... but dont over extend your self. We bought an awesome condo in Babylon Village which is exactly what we wanted and we stayed within our budget!



you love it because you bought a condo! lol

you dont havta pay for a collapsed cesspool.

***runs away and cries in corner!



EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!!! it's awesome!!!!!! lol loveee you amy!!!
VCanizalez Posted:

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YEP!!!
I will be doing that...

We were planning on house first then marry but We decided it was NOT going to work out so great saving towards the wedding and a downpayment...

So we decided FIRST marrid n then House!
Panamasweet Posted:

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This is the plan. We want to take the money from the wedding and pay off my truck which would allow us to save alot faster and look better when we apply for our mortgage....money comes and money goes

Notwedyet08 Posted:

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Posted by alicia6650

we bought the house first!!! Which saves us the after-wedding purchase...BUT we are paying a mortgage while paying for the wedding! No fun!



UGH same boat here-SO hard to pay for wedding things AND write the mortgage check each month!

If we were still living at home-we'd be having a HUGE wedding!
Summer Bride 2011 Posted:

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Posted by alicia6650

we bought the house first!!! Which saves us the after-wedding purchase...BUT we are paying a mortgage while paying for the wedding! No fun!



We're doing the same thing.
ami1129 Posted:

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I thought we could buy a house first....who was i kidding? House will come after....eventually.

smilesjc81 Posted:

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well not after the wedding- but we are gonna start saving right after the wedding for a condo

evita2781 Posted:

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Posted by FutureJOC

Yes... after the wedding is over any money that we receive as gifts from the wedding will be going directly towards a house and we will continue to save for one and then hopefully start looking about 6 months after



We're hoping to do the same but prolly buy after a year. It all depends on our job situation and the housing market also
TheEyesOfMarch Posted:

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We bought the house first. We just celebrated our one year in the house last month

It's def hard paying for a wedding when you have a house but I wouldn't have it any other way.
Jennielee15 Posted:

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Posted by alicia6650

we bought the house first!!! Which saves us the after-wedding purchase...BUT we are paying a mortgage while paying for the wedding! No fun!



We own as well, he actually already had the house when I met him. But yes, the mortgage is a pain!
itbroi805 Posted:

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any money after the wedding will go towards a house...after that we will be on the same budget we are now and will hopefully be able to buy something a year after the wedding
mrsq2be Posted:

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Posted by alicia6650

we bought the house first!!! Which saves us the after-wedding purchase...BUT we are paying a mortgage while paying for the wedding! No fun!



we are in the same boat! its hard to save and pay a mortgage at the same time. either way, buying a house before or after the wedding i think has its ups and downs...
Colcas2011 Posted:

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we own already.. wedding money is going towards granite counter tops, new driveway and built in pool hahaha fun stuff!

ready2wed Posted:

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We are trying to buy a house before the wedding. Like around the beginning of 2011. We want to be in a house by the time we get married to have space for a few close OOT'ers to stay. I'm not sure how this will work out but if not by then it will be the first purchase after the wedding!!!

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