how bms do you have

FancyMe1018 Posted: Apr 11, 2007 04:38 PM

how bms do you have

I currently only have two moh and bm in my party cuz things are falling apary Fh has 4 gm what to do ? how many should there be ?

PoeticJustice Posted: Apr 11, 2007 04:39 PM

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Posted by FancyMe1018

I currently only have two moh and bm in my party cuz things are falling apary Fh has 4 gm what to do ? how many should there be ?

I think its fine. Alot of people have unvene bridal parties. Right now I have 6 girls and I am no sure my FI is going to match that.

Dana Z to Be Posted: Apr 11, 2007 04:40 PM

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I have 5 girls and he has 4 guys

Espo22 Posted: Apr 11, 2007 04:40 PM

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DONT WORRY about numbers just pick whoever you want and FH can pick whoever he wants, dont worry about it being even either

FancyMe1018 Posted: Apr 11, 2007 04:41 PM

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lol and I have diffrent age ranges tooo lol Fh bm is going to be 19 when we get married n my moh is going to be 26 lol

KickinDandelions Posted: Apr 11, 2007 04:41 PM

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i don't think there's a set rule for how big your bridal party should be. originally i was going to have one MOH...but now FH says he wants two best men so i'm going to have either two MOH or one MOH and one bridesmaid

jenlen Posted: Apr 11, 2007 04:44 PM

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Choose whoever you want as your BM...they don't need to be the same age either.

FH has 4 groomsmen and I'm only having 2 BM's. I didn't want to ask girls to be a BM just for the sake of evening out the numbers...I only asked my sister and my best friend (anything more than that would end up in a 'if i choose her, then I also have to choose her, her and her' situation). All my other females friends will be participating in the wedding in other aspects.

SeaMaiden Posted: Apr 11, 2007 04:52 PM

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the max BM i would have is 3, FH wants 3 or 4. at first i worried about it being uneven but i really dont care anymore.

xXxNovember08xXx Posted: Apr 11, 2007 04:56 PM

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i have 6 and FH has 8

gemini515 Posted: Apr 11, 2007 04:58 PM

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I have 2 MOH and he has 2 BM
8 bridemaids and 8 groomsmen

DGoldfarb0776 Posted: Apr 11, 2007 05:05 PM

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Alot have uneven bridal parties.. I got 1 MoH and 2 BM, FH has 1 BM and 2 GM.

jteach711 Posted: Apr 11, 2007 05:16 PM

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I have too many. 10 girls, 7 boys

cherish83 Posted: Apr 11, 2007 06:19 PM

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Posted by jdienstag

I have too many. 10 girls, 7 boys

an even 9 on each side

violiz Posted: Apr 11, 2007 06:34 PM

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Posted by jdienstag

I have too many. 10 girls, 7 boys

I hear ya...
I have 10 girls, and FH has 10 guys

Munchkn16 Posted: Apr 11, 2007 06:46 PM

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Lots of people have uneven BPs. You could have two escorts for a single BM, or have everyone walk alone down the aisle.

We have five and five, but FH has two best men, both of whom are going to escort my sister (the MOH). We'll figure out something for the processional.

angl2001 Posted: Apr 11, 2007 07:26 PM

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right now i have 2 MOH 4 BMs and steve has
1 BM and 3 GM i hope he decides to ask his other friend soon but the party will probobly be uneven.My MOHs are gonna walk in and out of the church alone and the rest will pair up. then at the RH both MOH will be introduces with the best man

Jesses Girl Posted: Apr 11, 2007 07:31 PM

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i have 7 total

a moh
a matron of honor
5 girls.

IF THEY ALL SAY YES! i havent asked yet. im sure they will tho.

i hope

there is no right answer tho.