how can i have my brothers girlfriend be ..

lishbone Posted: Jun 18, 2005 08:03 AM

how can i have my brothers girlfriend be ..

a part of the wedding without being 'IN' it? i didnt ask her because she's only 19 and im not sure if they will be together forever (its kind of a long story)..but i will def have her take some pics with us..maybe she could read? im not sure..is anyone else in my boat?

troutster Posted: Jun 18, 2005 08:11 AM

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I'm not in the same boat as you but i understand your concern. I would ask her to be a reader. She could also help give out the item that is going ot be thrown, or something like that. I wouldn't have her do too much because like you said they may not be together forever.

lishbone Posted: Jun 18, 2005 08:16 AM

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Posted by troutster

I'm not in the same boat as you but i understand your concern. I would ask her to be a reader. She could also help give out the item that is going ot be thrown, or something like that. I wouldn't have her do too much because like you said they may not be together forever.

thank you..you are right i just feel guilty sometimes..they have been together for like 3 years but she cheated on him and it breaks my heart..i know they seem great together now and i know its none of my business but it still kills me..my brother is just awesome!!..ok i had to vent alittle

N.Y.bride Posted: Jun 18, 2005 08:20 AM

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If you really dont feel like she should be in the wedding I wouldnt worry. You cant include everyone and like you said theyre young, they may not be together forever.

If you do decide, you could have her read at the ceremony, but thats the only thing I could think of too.

LilyOfValley Posted: Jun 18, 2005 08:28 AM

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I would give her a reading or let her pass out programs?

David'sbride Posted: Jun 18, 2005 08:34 AM

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Let her pass out programs or petals/wands/bubbles, etc.

marymoon Posted: Jun 18, 2005 10:27 AM

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Posted by David'sbride

Let her pass out programs or petals/wands/bubbles, etc.

I agree with this.

This is what my sister and BIL had FH do. I thik poassing ut origrams at the beginning is really nice and it's an honor because then she's the first one everyone sees at the door, she greets everyone, it's a big honor, but she won't be in all the pictures, etc in case they break up