How dare she?

Ok, I just found out that a girl that my FH is friends with is telling people that he is making a huge mistake for marrying me! I am very upset, I never really liked this girl. She is just a bartender that my FH and his buddies know from going to this bar. But now she is saying mean things and it got back to me. I am livid! She hasnt liked me since we got engaged...what should I do? Confront her? Oh and my FH will not be watching football at this bar anymore!

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hmmmm need more info first - who told you this??

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This is total highschool crap. I guess this girl doesnt really count for anything, so she isnt worth confronting. I heard this info from a girl at work, who's husband is a friend of the mean girl bartender. I guess I am just hurt that someone could say that about me. This girl doesnt really know me that well, but has formed some rediculous opinion.

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if she doesn't really know you then who cares. she's not be worth it And she is jealous you are marrying a great guy!

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If your not close, blow it off. Some people have nothing better to do than be mean and talk about others. Forget her!

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go to her bar one day--sit at the bar with your shiny ring and make sure you happen to flash it towards her every chance you get! just rub in her face how happy the two of you are! .............i know i know don't stoop to her level but sometimes you have to put people in their place........he obviously love you b/c he is w/u and is marrying you--she's jealous!!!!!!

PS make sure the only tip he gives her is to keep her mouth shut and her opinions to herself

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If this is someone you don't see, then blow it off. If you really want to stick it to her, then go to the bar with your shiny ring and a big grin. She'll get the point.

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can you spell jealous? I bet you she can......

Forget it. She won't be sleeping between you and your wonderful beloved. Ever.

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screw her!!! don't let her ruin your day with her cattiness..she is just jealous..don't even waste your time with her...she will get the point when your fiance stops going to her bar...

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forget her
he is marrying you

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Ignore her. Don't let it get to you, she is obviously jealous, and people will realize this when she talks this way. She is just making herself look bad, so let her.

As far as not letting your fiance watch football there..well... i think that will make him resent you. Maybe just let him know what this girl has said, and how it made you feel. If she is his friend, than he should be the one to confront her, not you.

Just my opinion.. good luck with it, and don't let stupid people bother you.

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She is obviously very jelous of you! Aren't you a school teacher? (great Job) and from your profile You and you FH a great looking couple. I would just ignore her. She obviously has no class and I would not confront her. I would play it up in front of her and ignore her comments.

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don't even waste your energy on this jealous fool.

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Yeah, the same thing pretty much happened to me. FH's female friend said to his face that I was trying to get my 'hooks' into him and 'be careful' (the ***** never even met me)...

He's not friends with her anymore. But it took a little while for him to get it (basically we had a knock down, drag out, ugly fight about it). If I could do it over again, I'd avoid the fight at all cost. That fight took YEARS off my life.

My advice: Ignore her, ignore her, ignore her. It doesn't sound like they are close friends. Do they talk on the phone, or hang out at each other's house?

You'll see, she'll just...fade away.

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Can you say lahoo-sa-her?!

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Like everyone said, she is JEALOUS. It is sad to say, but there is alot of jealousy that comes with planning a wedding. She doesnt sound like anyone important. Dont let it upset you.

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Thank you ladies! She is nobody important in our lives, I am going to just forget about it. It just hurt that someone could say that about me. But anyway you are all right, she is NOT worth my time. Thank you again, I feel much better now. You guys are the best!

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I agree...It sounds like jealousy...you'd be surprised how many people probably realize this...

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Just look at it this way, be happy that you're popular enough to be talked about!! lol forget her.. don't give her the satisfaction of seeing you upset.. kill her with kindness!

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She probably always had a crush on your FH. She is nothing to even worry about. Don't let someone this insignificant to your life worry you.
If I were you, I would go and watch football with my FH, sit on his lap, hold his hand, and rub it in her face a bit.