Look, I don't think anyone is knocking girls that were lucky enough to have their parents or anyone else contribute to of pay for their wedding...
the point is NO ONE should be expected to do it or made to feel bad if they can't.
at least that is my point, but it's totally lost by all of the ridiculous stuff that comes out when a thread turns ugly.
we're all married or about to get married. let's put the claws away.
nferrandi
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As long as you have a good relationship with your parents or inlaws, that should be enough. Many people have money thrown at them but have horrible relationships with their family. Money does not equal love.
babybug631
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Seriously, why does it need to turn ugly on any topic?
There is no need to attack anyone on here. It's sad really.
Happybride2005
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would i have wanted my wedding paid for...of course. most was important for us to have both set of parents there to see us get married
kmkelly
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My parents do not have a lot of money. They are divorced, and retired. I would never expect them to foot the bill for my wedding. They have helped here and there and I greatly appreciate this.
FH's parents are deceased.
We are paying for the wedding we want. And that's fine. If your parents are helping you, be grateful and thank Godl.
