How did you ask you BP?? I am going to ask my three sisters and my best friend to be my joint MOH/BM-- I can't pick one of them over another- they are all my best friends-- how should I ask them?? I want to give them tshirts that say Bride's Maid-- or Maid of Honor-- which should I have it say so that they are all the same?? Maybe MOH on the front & BM on back? Should I wait and do that closer to the wedding? I also want to give them a tote bag with a planner-- maybe I can give them that now?? I want it to be special, since they all pretty much know they'll be IN the party-- I think they're wondering which one i will ask to be the MOH- I just can't pick one! Thanks for any help!
CrisiDrue
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I bought cards to send that said 'Will you be my Bridesmaid/MOH/Flower Girl' but I never got around to sending them all. I also got a card for my father that I did send that said 'Will you walk me down the aisle?'.
luvbud
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i called everyone and asked them on the phone. but for my MOH i went to her house. i wanted to see her reaction.
ggcopying
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I first asked them by phone and then made some cards to tell them that I was honor to have them in my bridal party.
Tria1110
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Honestly, I didn't!
I have one sister and one best friend (who is as close as a sister). And they just knew!
angl2001
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i only asked 2 out of my 6 the others were a givin lol i gave my MOH a lamb doll i got her from ireland and rolled up a pieece of paper in it that said 'will EWE be my bridesmaid' then when i decided to make her MOH i called her up and said 'knock knock' MOH: 'whos there' Me: 'MOH' MOH: 'moh who?' me: MOH youuuuuuuu I know im a geek lol then my last BM i asked we all went to a diner (my moh is getting married to and asked her to be in the bp) i got a white fudege dipped oreo and wrote will you be our bridesmaid on it with a toothpick then rubber red food coloringm over it so she woulld see the words. then we gave it to her at the diner. lol i always do silly things like that to give people gifts or ask them important things! i know its silly but they usually love it!
Mrs. V 2008
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i just asked them..i wish now that i made cards
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Posted by angl2001
i only asked 2 out of my 6 the others were a givin lol i gave my MOH a lamb doll i got her from ireland and rolled up a pieece of paper in it that said 'will EWE be my bridesmaid' then when i decided to make her MOH i called her up and said 'knock knock' MOH: 'whos there' Me: 'MOH' MOH: 'moh who?' me: MOH youuuuuuuu I know im a geek lol then my last BM i asked we all went to a diner (my moh is getting married to and asked her to be in the bp) i got a white fudege dipped oreo and wrote will you be our bridesmaid on it with a toothpick then rubber red food coloringm over it so she woulld see the words. then we gave it to her at the diner. lol i always do silly things like that to give people gifts or ask them important things! i know its silly but they usually love it!
I LOVE THOSE IDEA'S!!! Thanks!!!!!
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is it awful that I never formally asked my sisters (both MOH)? It was just understood!! And my nieces/nephew too! Although my nieces each got a cute book.
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I never formally asked my MOH (sister) b/c we'd talked about her being my MOH since FH and I started dating! For my BM (FSIL), I just called her and asked.
