Ok Ladies...how do u or did u know he's the one...and do u ever think about someone else, and said what if?
Ladybug63
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On our first date I knew I would marry him. We clicked instantly. I told him we were gonna get married and he thought I was nuts! Well here we are over 2 years later and engaged!
Ang&Rich
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My heart knows that he's the one. Since the moment we met it's been an amazing relationship and with every passing day I am reminded that he's my soulmate. Through the good and the bad.
A while back I had a dream that I cheated on him - with someone that looked exactly like him - and he left me. I actually woke up crying because I was so upset. So no - I never even wonder what it'll be like without him.
Marcela1654
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Fh was my first boyfriend and I was his first girlfriend. We went out for 3 yrs and broke up for 6yrs. During those 6 yrs he had a serious girlfriend and I had a serious boyfriend. But we live next door to each other so we always kept in touch (not often, but every now and then). After 6 yrs it happened that we both broke up with our bf/gf at the same time and ended up seeing each other at a local bar in Bayside. From then, we began talking and hanging out. Just as friends in the beginning though since I was afraid if we got together it would be a rebound thing for both of us. However, that changed one day in March. From the moment he kissed me for the first time again, I knew he would be my future husband and father of my children. I just don't know why, I just knew
dita531
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We actually met at a bar. He took my hand so we could get through the crowd and go outside and talk. I hand felt all tingly...I just knew. He knows how to deal with my moods and he's just overall a wonderful man and I can't wait to spend the rest of my life with him!
Sweetness
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I knew he was the one when we were dating for 2 months. he is the only one that i was ever able to actually be myself around without the fear of being judged. He has this talent to make me smile, laugh and feel soo wonderful no matter what mood i am in, even if i am ticked at him for something. We can be silly together and that is the greatest feeling...
steph4777
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I knew he was the ONE bc when we first kissed I felt a tingle run through my body. I never had that feeling before. I tried to brush that off at first saying it was just static from walking on the carpet, but after our 3rd date I realized it was a sign.
patti08
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I just knew, right from the beginning, so did he. It was so different from any other relationship (and I've had serious relationships).
I can't say butterflies and tingles but definitely magic.
september2004
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i knew he was the one because things that he did that normally would annoy me with any other person, didn't bother me at all...
the courting process was painless. there were no 'games' played and he just kept (and still keeps) me laughing...
deedee
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I know this sounds cheesy, but our first kiss. We hadn't kissed until a month after we were seeing eachother. It was the most amazing kiss I had ever experienced and I knew at that moment.....
Bebalina
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Monkeybride
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I knew when I met him that I had to date him and the first time I went to visit him I knew I was going to marry him (didn't tell him that but I think he felt the same way).
I moved to be with him 6 months later and here we are on our way to happily ever after.
For me I just knew.
deedee
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I think it's alittle normal to wonder, what if? It's very stressful planning a wedding- with that being said, planning your whole life. I find it alittle strange that your FBIL is egging you on with his friend though. You should be careful with that one. Other than that I think it's somewhat normal to wonder, when it comes to acting on those feelings is another story.... good luck.
Bebalina
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thanks deedee.....thats what my MOH told me....i hope these feelings go away.
Spot12905
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I thought that he was the one. It came out to be true that we were going to become one.
CherylBooch
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Mine is weird-- We were friends for many years... but one day, just a couple of days before Christmas, he came to pick me up to take me to a nice dinner, just a friends, as a Christmas present. As he pulled up and as I was getting into the car, he had Christmas music playing in his car. He was just soooo happy and excited for Christmas, and he starting sing to me jokingly... but just then I looked at him, and just KNEW that he was the one. I just got this strange feeling inside of me... kinda magical. Then 2 years later we started dating... and the rest is history!
Bebalina-- as for your dream, are you sure you are not confusing a CRUSH with REAL LOVE?
Bebalina
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u mean do i have a crush with my FH or is it real love....definetly not....
i'm positive of that.... i just dont know y i'm dreaming bout this other person now. I'm not even interested in him now...when i was 19 yes...but not now
kaangel217
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We met in High School. As soon as I saw him I had to meet him. From that moment I knew that both of our lives were going to change. We have had a lot of challenges in our relationship and with every challenge our love for each other just gets stronger. I am very lucky to be able to tell people that after 13 years of knowing him and about 8 years of dating, not only am I marrying my best friend, I get to marry my first love.
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I don't know. We met through some friends in HS, and I really didn't pay much attention to him at all, but you know when you meet someone, and that meeting just sticks with you? I've had that a few times where I'll meet someone and have a weird feeling and they'll become important to me later on. Then we became friends and we could really talk to each other although we were REALLY different. We flirted a little but what really made me fall for him was how a friend of ours was ahving some problems, and he was really there for her. He was so sensitive and caring. I saw him in a whole new light after that. And then I learned so much more about him, his silly side, etc. But I think it was gradual, it wasn't just a moment that buzzed in my head, I just came to realize over all of these years that we were going to make it. Of course I've wondered what if. Sometimes I really get myself upset over it. (I've been boycrazy since birth), but I know it'll work out in the end and I'm really happy with FH and I wouldn't trade him for all of the other cute guys in the world!
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I knew he was the one within a week, I got the stereotypical butterflies for like 6 months everytime I saw him! He makes me laugh and cry like no one else ever could!
But I dont think that what you are feeling is abnormal! I think that alot of us have probably had a moment or two where we thought what if. IMO its normal, we are making a LIFE LONG COMMITMENT! thats big and with big changes often comes anxiety. But seen as this is someone so present in your life you may just want to really think about whether these feelings are just what ifs or if they are more! GOod Luck!