How do you

Tell a bridesmaid that she is no longer in the wedding party . I don't want to we're very close but at this point I have no choice

Hmm is it something that she realizes for herself? Maybe suggest it to her and let her run with it?

Sorry to hear about this Neeks, are you able to tell us what happened?

i did it- i was upset about it at first- but we jsut werent getting along- idk everyones differnet- but i wrote her a lnog letter about how ifelt- and once i wrote it- i felt sooooooooo mcuh better- try to be nice, but worry about yourself

trust me youll feel better once its over

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Posted by amandamichael

i did it- i was upset about it at first- but we jsut werent getting along- idk everyones differnet- but i wrote her a lnog letter about how ifelt- and once i wrote it- i felt sooooooooo mcuh better- try to be nice, but worry about yourself

trust me youll feel better once its over

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I was thinking about doing this as well

just tell her ..flat out.

it may also help with her problem.

sometimes people just need a serious reality check.

and to see how what they do affects other people.

I remember you talking about this a while ago so I would say at this point there is nothing left to do but let her go. You've tried but you cant help someone who cant help themselves. At this point you have to do what is best for you and your wedding.

I let a BM go because she just wasnt there and athough I understand everyone has thier lives and it doesnt revolve around my wedding but when you accept being a bridesmaid it comes with certain obligations. She missed 3 dress appointments and it would take her like 2 weeks to answer a text. I wrote her a looooong email. I felt I would be able to express myself better that was than to talk to her. I had a feeling that she would say something that would tic me off and i would just hang up.

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Posted by Panamasweet

I remember you talking about this a while ago so I would say at this point there is nothing left to do but let her go. You've tried but you cant help someone who cant help themselves. At this point you have to do what is best for you and your wedding.

I let a BM go because she just wasnt there and athough I understand everyone has thier lives and it doesnt revolve around my wedding but when you accept being a bridesmaid it comes with certain obligations. She missed 3 dress appointments and it would take her like 2 weeks to answer a text. I wrote her a looooong email. I felt I would be able to express myself better that was than to talk to her. I had a feeling that she would say something that would tic me off and i would just hang up.

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Yes I spoke about it a while ago at that point I was not sure if I should or not..I was pretty much trying to buy time for her to get herself together and I avoided doing it for a while but the time is flying A year has passed and were going for dresses this weekend / she has no clue because she is m i a lol are you still friends with the bm that you dismissed lol..I feel better if I say dismissed