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how do you add the illusion of weight

dawnbridetobe Posted:

how do you add the illusion of weight

I know this question seems odd, but my mom is chronically ill and she was just hospitalized for a week and lost more weight. The problem is she is very self conscience of her weight and really was hoping to be a little heavier for the wedding-unfortunately she can not eat much, so traditional methods are out. Has anyone ever heard of a body suit that will add the appearance of like 10-20 lbs in the waist and hip areas-if so where can I find one? I just want my mom to feel comfortable and beautiful.

TIA
milana Posted:

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Oh i see. Im sorry that your mom is going through this illness

What about if she wore special undergarments, ive heard that in some stores they specialize in lingere for people with illnesses and they have different types of bodysuits. Im just am not sure which store it is sorry
billandme Posted:

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I can't offer any advice about adding weight on, but I can definately sympathize with your mom. I have lost LOTS of weight from a surgery I had 1 month ago. I am VERY skinny now and it will show in my wedding pictures......... I also can only eat certain foods so trying to add it on is NOT easy, so I feel her pain............

I hope you can get some information from other brides on here so your mom can feel confident on your wedding day.........I'm sure you'll find SOMETHING for her
dawnbridetobe Posted:

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Thanks ladies!! I have been searching online but everything is weight reducing! I am sure somebody sells something or maybe the seamtress can do something-we'll see...

ant n tilde Posted:

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Posted by dawnbridetobe

Thanks ladies!! I have been searching online but everything is weight reducing! I am sure somebody sells something or maybe the seamtress can do something-we'll see...



yeah no matter what i google i keep getting undergarments for 'slimming'!

Shoulder pads will definitely work for the upper body - there has to be something that the seamstress can do - good luck!

AlliCatB Posted:

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I found this online, HTH:

What can I do to gain weight?

The average person wanting to gain weight should try to eat foods with high calorie content and larger portions of food. Mild exercise can help to increase your appetite and help you add muscle rather than fat.

The following recommendations can be used by anyone wanting to gain or regain weight. It may be necessary, however, to change them to meet your specific needs. Check with your health care provider or dietitian about this.

* To start, eat about 500 calories more a day than you have been eating. Some people will need to add up to a 1,000 extra calories. Look at the top section of the Nutrition Facts label of packaged foods to see how many calories are in a serving.
* Eat snacks throughout the day.
* Choose higher calorie foods often.
* Try to always eat larger-than-normal portions at meals. If you have a poor appetite, it may work better to eat smaller, very high calorie meals and to eat more often.
* Fat contains more calories than any other food group: 45 calories in just 1 teaspoon. Adding healthy fats, such as plant oils (canola, olive, or peanut oil), soft margarines (look for those with no trans fats), old-fashioned peanut butter (the kind that needs stirring before you eat it), and avocado, is an easy way to add a lot of calories without having to eat a lot more food.

Avoid saturated fats. Although all fats contain the same amount of calories, saturated fats can increase your cholesterol and other harmful blood fats. Foods high in saturated fat include: whole-milk dairy products, chicken skin, bacon, sausage, sour cream, butter, high-fat cuts of meat, and many processed snack foods.
* Even though you are eating a high-calorie diet, you should try to keep it healthy by including a lot of unprocessed (unrefined) carbohydrates, such as whole grains and fruits, as well as vegetables and lean protein foods such as skim milk products, skinless poultry, fish, egg whites, beans, and low-fat cuts of pork and beef.

What are some ways to add calories and protein to foods?

* Sauté meats and vegetables in canola or olive oil or wine sauces, or add breadcrumb toppings. If you are an athlete or are recovering from surgery, you need more protein, so add extra portions from the protein group.
* To mashed potatoes add extra powdered milk and margarine.
* To soups, add skim milk instead of water. Top with croutons and Parmesan cheese. Bean and minestrone soups have more calories than broth types of soups.
* To cold cereals, add dried or fresh fruits, nuts, and seeds. Try to choose the higher calorie cereals such as muesli and granola.
* Prepare hot cereals with milk instead of water, and add powdered milk, margarine, honey, syrup, or dried fruits to the cereal.
* When you drink juice, you can add the most calories by drinking grape, cranberry, pineapple, or apple juice.
* To salads, include different types of lettuce and add tomatoes, avocado, garbanzo beans, raisins, and sunflower seeds. Chopped nuts and lean meats will add extra protein as well as calories. Generously use dressings made with heart-healthy oils, such as canola or olive oil.
* To 1% milk add a quarter cup of powdered milk to add both calories and protein. Carnation instant breakfast, commercial milk flavorings, and Ovaltine can also boost the calories in milk.
* Dietary supplements such as Boost and Ensure are good between-meal snacks. There are specialty liquid supplements available for people recovering from illness or with a chronic health condition. Products for diabetics include Glucerna and Glytrol. If you have an intestinal problem, Enlive may be a good choice. Ask your health care provider about these products.
* Beans and legumes, such as kidney, navy, pinto, and garbanzo beans; peas; lentils; and peanuts are a great source of protein and fiber.
* Eat dessert after dinner. Look for desserts made with healthy oils or low-fat milk.
* Snacking is a big part of successful weight gain. Try yogurt with crunchy cereal added, fruit wafers, graham crackers, crackers with lean cheese, mini sandwiches and burritos, milkshakes made with frozen yogurt or low-fat ice cream, dried fruits, trail mix, vegetables dipped in salad dressing, and nuts.
dgirl Posted:

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Try bra tenders in the city. (www.bratenders.com) They do a lot of work for all the shows on Broadway and they can get any type of undergarment. I went there for my bra for my wedding and there were a lot of articles about them hanging with different 'illusions' they've created for the shows.

They are very friendly there too.

HTH
Elise&Matt Posted:

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what about those undergarments with the padding in it? like the pants that give u an a$$ that's all that is coming to my mind right now
Pencils Posted:

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Posted by dawnbridetobe
Has anyone ever heard of a body suit that will add the appearance of like 10-20 lbs in the waist and hip areas-if so where can I find one? I just want my mom to feel comfortable and beautiful. TIA



I have heard of butt padders, to make it look like you have more of a butt. Otherwise, I've never heard of anything like that. Sorry. I feel for your mom, I have a chronic illness too, that sometimes, like right now, flares up and makes it very hard for me to eat anything. There have been times in the past where I've lost 20 lbs in six weeks from not eating, and I'm getting there right now, (although I gained some weight last fall so it's not so bad.)

] like this

Kind of an odd website, but hey, they have them!

Does your mom have her dress already? If it's something loose, it might not be such a big deal, she might just be feeling self-conscious.

Hugs to both of you!
donegal419 Posted:

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perhaps a dress with an empire waist.... or something with a pattern? also, perhaps a stripe or panel that goes horizontally always seems to make one look larger

Cpt2007 Posted:

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Newport News

This is just one of the things they have. I am pretty sure they have other things. I'm looking around, and the above one is the first thing that popped up.

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