argue? do you yell and scream? is one person calmer than the other? are you sarcastic? how do you make up?
i'm just curious on how other people argue- FH and I argue and then when we cant come to a solution (usually by that time we're yelling) we stop talking to each other. he hasnt talked to me since yesterday 4pm.
halfbaked
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id rather be called a c u next tuesday than be ignored for a few days. blehhh
YES! This drives me insane!! Like it literally makes me CRAZY.
marinai7
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Both of us are fairly calm - FH would never yell at me. He's very laid back and tries to talk everything out. I don't yell either.
JennandAnthony
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I get sarcastic and then he starts telling me what an attitude I have and goes through the whole 'who do you think you are lateley' b-s ......then we are silent for a little while and a just start talking again.....sometimes it ends up with one of us going to sleep
SummerBride10
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he gets quiet and i just cry cuz i cry over everything.
MrsSoto
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i yell and scream he stays calm and repeats the same thing, im sorry. i scream more because sorry dont cut it. or another kind of fight is i talk logically and its too much for him to take and he stays quiet and i keep going. then i say whateva, and then depending hell try to hug me, ill shove him away and thats that until sometime down the road,
MikesBride2B
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We yell and slam doors and crap...FH was raised in an insanely passive aggressive environment so he says all kinds of stupid sh!t and then that makes me angry and I yell about that...then once we've calmed down we sit quietly defeated and calmly discuss the issue at hand until we have a resolution. We've been trying to do this thing where instead of starting a fight we say 'I'd rather not talk to you right now, I'm really angry and I don't want to say something I don't mean or that I will regret saying'...its actually helped us to not argue as much and then once the person calms down we can discuss what happened calmly.
When we fight over the phone I just hang up on him if I get too pissed ...then I'll call him back a little while and yell some more or we just talk it out.
Lil OC
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I chase him with an axe
cateydee
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I chase him with an axe
can i borrow that for a sec
Clover23
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depends on our moods. if i'm the angry one, i'll start yelling and being evil... like pushing his buttons. so he'll respond by pushing mine - which in that scenario is by ignoring me. like putting his face in a pillow and pretending to go to sleep.
if he's the angry one.... whoa stay away. yells, screams, and i swear he breathes fire. i usually end up crying.
after anywhere from 1/2 hour to a couple hours, we'll just start speaking again.
FallBride2010
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I yell and scream. FH leaves and doesnt answer his phone. It's a horrible combo b/c nothing ever gets resolved and I hold grudges
