FH into doing the wedding stuff? He wants to get married and all but, doesn't want to do the leg work. So I want him to go to the RH's with me for his opinion and he does and doesn't want to go, he'll decide the day of the appiontment. I say you make an appiontment and should stick with it and don't make me do all the work. I will go alone, don't totally want to but, what should I do. I am done dragging my mom cause she has really bad kness and I feel bad when she has to go up and down the stairs but, wants to help me. I would like someone to go with me so I have another head.....EEEERRRRR!!!! What do I do? Did I make any sense at the end? HELP!!
mdawg
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hmm... tell fh that if he doesnt go with you to the appointment, he'll have no say inthe RH that you picked.
jordan like refuses to not go with me so i dont have any experience with that problem
BUT seriously, it needs to be a two person ordeal. the other one sees things that you may not, and can also come up with questions that dont hit you right away.
tell him you really value his opinion and in order for it to be a fair wedding he has to do his share of the leg work.
dazies1011
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Posted by mdawg
hmm... tell fh that if he doesnt go with you to the appointment, he'll have no say inthe RH that you picked.
jordan like refuses to not go with me so i dont have any experience with that problem
BUT seriously, it needs to be a two person ordeal. the other one sees things that you may not, and can also come up with questions that dont hit you right away.
tell him you really value his opinion and in order for it to be a fair wedding he has to do his share of the leg work.
That won't work, I even tried what if we can taste the food. He was upset he didn't go with me this past Wed to them cause WM gave us some to taste, to him!!! He says his mom will go then and I don't know if I want her to go cause she is like him she'll cancel last minute, like last week when we went to Thr Riviera or she might say something to embaress me, my mom knows to how to keep hers shut, . I am going ot have to stick with what you said, and I have said it already, I am going to pick what I like and you will have NO SAY!!!! Oh and No S**!!!!
mdawg
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Posted by dazies1011
Posted by mdawg
hmm... tell fh that if he doesnt go with you to the appointment, he'll have no say inthe RH that you picked.
jordan like refuses to not go with me so i dont have any experience with that problem
BUT seriously, it needs to be a two person ordeal. the other one sees things that you may not, and can also come up with questions that dont hit you right away.
tell him you really value his opinion and in order for it to be a fair wedding he has to do his share of the leg work.
That won't work, I even tried what if we can taste the food. He was upset he didn't go with me this past Wed to them cause WM gave us some to taste, to him!!! He says his mom will go then and I don't know if I want her to go cause she is like him she'll cancel last minute, like last week when we went to Thr Riviera or she might say something to embaress me, my mom knows to how to keep hers shut, . I am going ot have to stick with what you said, and I have said it already, I am going to pick what I like and you will have NO SAY!!!! Oh and No S**!!!!
lololol men are so impossible sometimes!
withhold the nookie. tell him the next time he gets it will be after you go to see one RH together... then after the next one, he'll get it TWICE, and then after the third one, THREE times... it's incentive for him to want to see 20 of them. :)
dazies1011
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Posted by dazies1011
Posted by mdawg
hmm... tell fh that if he doesnt go with you to the appointment, he'll have no say inthe RH that you picked.
jordan like refuses to not go with me so i dont have any experience with that problem
BUT seriously, it needs to be a two person ordeal. the other one sees things that you may not, and can also come up with questions that dont hit you right away.
tell him you really value his opinion and in order for it to be a fair wedding he has to do his share of the leg work.
That won't work, I even tried what if we can taste the food. He was upset he didn't go with me this past Wed to them cause WM gave us some to taste, to him!!! He says his mom will go then and I don't know if I want her to go cause she is like him she'll cancel last minute, like last week when we went to Thr Riviera or she might say something to embaress me, my mom knows to how to keep hers shut, . I am going ot have to stick with what you said, and I have said it already, I am going to pick what I like and you will have NO SAY!!!! Oh and No S**!!!!
lololol men are so impossible sometimes!
withhold the nookie. tell him the next time he gets it will be after you go to see one RH together... then after the next one, he'll get it TWICE, and then after the third one, THREE times... it's incentive for him to want to see 20 of them. :)
I hope so!!!!
ArmyOfBabies
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Start telling him some 'plans' that you know he'll hate... when he thinks you have bad taste he might want to help out.
