How do you kick someone out of your wedding party???

pinkgirl Posted: May 18, 2004 04:40 PM

How do you kick someone out of your wedding party???

My mom MADE me put my cousin in our wedding. He has always been close to the family but has always annoyed me. I knew it was something I HAD to do. So now he got into a fight with my mom and she isn't talking to him (I never do anyway!) SO she said 'You might have one less groomsman!' How would I go about kicking him out? Call him? Just don't tell him any info? Help!

Kriss2c Posted: May 18, 2004 04:47 PM

Re: How do you kick someone out of your wedding party???

I don't know, it's a tough situation..... are you sure you really don't want him in it? Are you prepared to possibly ruin what's left of the relationship and risk a huge rift in the family?

You could give him all the wrong info for the big day. J/K.

DjPiLL Posted: May 18, 2004 04:53 PM

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Well since your mom MADE you do this... how bout tell your mom to have her kick him out.

Only sounds fair to me.

Summerbride04 Posted: May 18, 2004 05:08 PM

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Posted by DjPiLL

Well since your mom MADE you do this... how bout tell your mom to have her kick him out.

Only sounds fair to me.

I like that idea!

JuneBride2005 Posted: May 18, 2004 05:13 PM

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Posted by Summerbride04

Posted by DjPiLL

Well since your mom MADE you do this... how bout tell your mom to have her kick him out.

Only sounds fair to me.

I like that idea!

So do I!

DjPiLL Posted: May 18, 2004 05:18 PM

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I dunno... maybe I come off a little harsh on here at times... but it drives me nuts when people say 'family made them do it'.

Im sorry but you gotta remember this is YOUR wedding. People in your party should be picked by YOU. Not by anyone else. Its one thing if your FI wanted somebody in your party since he is obviously part of the wedding (your husband). LOL

Good case in point... I never mentioned to my girl about adding my sister to her bridal party. My girl doesn't have any brothers so thats not an option for me. But I wasn't going to push anything. My girl asked my sister to be in her party herself. Thats the way it should be done.

neesiepie Posted: May 18, 2004 05:35 PM

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Like THIS:

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mosh913 Posted: May 18, 2004 06:29 PM

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well, you could hope that somebody on liweddings.com knows him, and knows it's you writing, then they will go back and tell him, then he will drop out before you tell him you're even considering kicking him out. That's what happened to me

suven Posted: May 18, 2004 06:50 PM

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Posted by neesiepie

Like THIS:

Awesome!!!

suven Posted: May 18, 2004 06:51 PM

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Posted by mosh913

well, you could hope that somebody on liweddings.com knows him, and knows it's you writing, then they will go back and tell him, then he will drop out before you tell him you're even considering kicking him out. That's what happened to me