How does everyone else feel about this?

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Posted by stacey&paul

My FH had his bachelor party over the weekend and ofcourse they went to a strip club and ofcourse I filpped out. Am I the only one who hates the mere thought? A lot of my girlfriends find it so easy to brush off, but not me! Can't stand it!!!

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I am completley with you. I think it stems from working in an ER and I swear we had a TON coem in with VD and it just grosses me out!

Im against the idea, but luckily for me so is my FH. Even when the plan guys night out, when the idea of going to one comes up, he says he wont go if they plan on that.

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Posted by N.Y.bride

I hate it too, but as long as he doesnt make it a habit LOL I can deal with it.. You know only for bachelor parties and absolutely NO touching.

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i totally agree

its a non-issue b/c fh thinks strippers are gross. but if they went, i wouldn't care. my tupperware can take my man away

I really don't care...He can watch naked girls on TV any day of the week, so I don't find much difference in them dancing in front of him. If they are in a club, there really isn't much going on. FH actually finds them kinda boring....

If you think about it, a strip club is better than a REAL club - at least a strip club doesn't have girls there that are actually trying to hook up with your guy!!!

I can't stand it either, I think you are 100% right.

My point is this, I wouldn't care if he went to a strip club for someone elses bachelor party...so its not jealousy or me thinking hes doing anything... I just feel that to do it before our wedding is a complete lack of respect for me and our marraige to come. Go to a strip club after, I don't care!...I just don't want him to making any part of our marraige process distateful when it is the most serious thing I have ever committed to. Does that make sense?? Plus I'm Catholic so I'm sure that is part of it!!

I hate strip clubs and have spoken to FH about it and asked him not to have strppers or go to those clubs. He knows how I feel and has sworn to me that he would not have them or go to a club. THANFULLY his brother is in charge of the BP and he has whole heartily assured me that nothing of the sort will go on. Since the brother is against them (yeah) I don't have to worry about it.

Now, if his other friends want to give him a BP (because his bro lives out of state) then I am in BIG trouble as those guys LOVE to go to the strip clubs.

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Posted by ellebelle1

I freakin' hate it. The thought my of my FH looking at naked chicks makes me want to yack, But, guess what, my friends surprised me with a stripper this past weekend. So, now I can't say anything to him. AHHHHHHHH......... BUT, I have to tell you that I refused the VIP dance, aka. him rubbing his you know what all over me. Lap dances are absolutely a forming of cheating.

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That last line makes me

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Posted by ellebelle1

I freakin' hate it. The thought my of my FH looking at naked chicks makes me want to yack, But, guess what, my friends surprised me with a stripper this past weekend. So, now I can't say anything to him. AHHHHHHHH......... BUT, I have to tell you that I refused the VIP dance, aka. him rubbing his you know what all over me. Lap dances are absolutely a forming of cheating.

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That last line makes me

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I agree, but everyone defines cheating differently.

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I know....I was just putting my thought out there.

Don't take your FH to a European beach for your HM then!

id be the same way! My FI wants the whole night out w the guys....strip clubs and all. While me im like come on hunny lets do a group thing! haha yea ok that wont happen! I do trust him and i dont think he go sleep w/ someone but the thought of 1/2 naked or even full naked girls all over him just to make a few $$ just gets to me! For those ppl who say oh its not so bad....i dont believe it at all...ive been to gossips w/ him and i saw how the girls were all over him and his friends....so i know it be 10x worse when its all guys for his 'last night out'! plus the other thing is...when i hear that last night out crap..ahhhh you been w. me for 5 yrs already is it that bad that you have to act like you are in a life sentence?! haha now this is turning into a vent i see!! LOL

I honestly could care less. You have to have trust in the man you are marrying. If it is not a trust thing and you just don't want to sit home and think about it, then don't! Go out with your girls and have a few drinks! In the end, you will probably have a better night then FH did

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Posted by ellebelle1

I freakin' hate it. The thought my of my FH looking at naked chicks makes me want to yack, But, guess what, my friends surprised me with a stripper this past weekend. So, now I can't say anything to him. AHHHHHHHH......... BUT, I have to tell you that I refused the VIP dance, aka. him rubbing his you know what all over me. Lap dances are absolutely a forming of cheating.

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That last line makes me

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I agree, but everyone defines cheating differently.

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I know....I was just putting my thought out there.

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You know I agree with you about that and about the stripper topic in general.

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We are the coolest wives in town..

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Posted by ellebelle1

I freakin' hate it. The thought my of my FH looking at naked chicks makes me want to yack, But, guess what, my friends surprised me with a stripper this past weekend. So, now I can't say anything to him. AHHHHHHHH......... BUT, I have to tell you that I refused the VIP dance, aka. him rubbing his you know what all over me. Lap dances are absolutely a forming of cheating.

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That last line makes me

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I agree, but everyone defines cheating differently.

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I know....I was just putting my thought out there.

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You know I agree with you about that and about the stripper topic in general.

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We are the coolest wives in town..

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I should show DH these threads so he realizes how good he has it.

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I am always telling DH how lucky he is that I am so laid back when it comes to things like that.

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Oh my good lord!!! Do we really have to go here again????

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I agree. We have already beat this topic to death. I tell FH too how good he has it. He couldnt believe how angry some of the girls are about the whole idea.