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How does your FH feel about going to vendors with you? Poll

donnasmom Posted:

How does your FH feel about going to vendors with you? Poll

Donna said Josh is happy to let her do most of the footwork, narrow it down, and then talk about it. Mary MOB

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted:

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My FH really wants nothing to do with it.... he pisses and moans when i make him go visit 1 vendor from each category!

shelly17711 Posted:

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My FH isn't really any of those! We both find it very stressful to organize and pick the vendors, so either we both go or my mom makes me go with her (not by choice lol).

Mrs B to Be Posted:

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Posted by donnasmom

Donna said Josh is happy to let her do most of the footwork, narrow it down, and then talk about it. Mary MOB



b/c i'm the control freak (and i work for a wedding coordinator) this is what i allow him to do! its not that he doesnt care he just knows it means a lot to me....so i pick a few that i like, and then we decide together....only the flowers he really didnt care (as long as i stayed in budget!)
little34 Posted:

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He doesn't complain....but I didn't ask him to go do every little thing with me...we did the big things together like RH, photog, and Dj but he didn't complain at all.

ELluvsMB Posted:

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He's been going with me to everything thus far (minus dress shopping of course)....but i narrowed down the places through email/phone calls before we went. I'm sure he doesn't love it but he's been ok so far.

kweber322 Posted:

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FH went with me to all the reception halls but that's pretty much all he wanted to do. I let him choose our save the date magnets initially and I hated them - so I'm very happy doing everything by myself. I do run everything by him but he's always like whatever you want is fine. :)

egem523 Posted:

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Posted by ELluvsMB

He's been going with me to everything thus far (minus dress shopping of course)....but i narrowed down the places through email/phone calls before we went. I'm sure he doesn't love it but he's been ok so far.



FH and I agreeded the most important vendor would be RH, Photo and DJ the rest is up to me I did not want to bother because I know going to flower appt, pick out invites does not really interest him. I basically narrowed it down to my top choices of each vendor and made appt with him.
PROBM Posted:

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FH doesnt really trust me so i think he would rather go
FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted:

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Posted by kweber322

but he's always like whatever you want is fine. :)


this is exactly what i hear form FH everytime i ask for his opinion on something!
mls282 Posted:

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FH wouldn't mind going to some vendors but really he doesn't care much. His whole thing is that he trusts my opinion and in the end I am going to get whatever I want anyone so whats the point.....LOL! So it works out well that he cant take time off from work right now so I get to go do all the running around by myself (or with MOH). We discuss it and make the decisions together but he does not want to really have to go to the vendors. oh well!!
meli722 Posted:

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hes been going with me, the most he had to say was at the RH....other then that he just says 'whatever she wants' lol

fiore76 Posted:

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He comes with to everything.
ladybengal Posted:

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He likes to go to the appointments but they have to be in the top two..He is the deciding factor..I do the hard work and he chooses because half of the time, I fall in love with both choices. It works out well!!
ddnsp618 Posted:

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he lets me do all the hard work---then he comes in with the checkbook at the end

hes the mariano rivera of this relationship.
Jessiegrl Posted:

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He's enjoyed coming along.
He knows I know exactly what I want so he usually lets me do the talking
Theresa2104 Posted:

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FH wants NOTHING to do with it.

Yesterday I was going to book the photographer, and his exact words were 'What do I care who pushes the button'

So yeah he basically doesnt care about ANYTHING except marrying me of course
VickiR510 Posted:

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Seriously FH loves going to check them out! I think secretly he likes to really see who is trying to s c r e w him. He is an NYPD DET. so its in his blood!
MakingofaMulligan Posted:

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FH wanted to see the hall I picked, and deal with photo/DJ/limo.

Invites, flowers, bakeries he wanted nothing to do with.

I didn't mind though!!!!!
Aristotelina Posted:

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FH won't come to all of the vendors. He wants me to narrow it down first and honestly, I'd rather do it that way too! He is too opinionated sometimes and I'd rather do all of the 'picking'

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