How does your FH feel about going to vendors with you? Poll

Original post by donnasmom

Jul 29, 2008 04:26 PM

Donna said Josh is happy to let her do most of the footwork, narrow it down, and then talk about it. Mary MOB

tinadansr Posted: Jul 29, 2008 05:53 PM

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He went to the hall and DJ and Photo but I think that's it now I just run things by him

LegoBride Posted: Jul 29, 2008 05:54 PM

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My FH is pretty opposite of most guys when it comes to wedding planning. He wants to be involved in everything and has been since the day we got engaged. He was extremely excited to register then again he loves to cook

Espo22 Posted: Jul 29, 2008 05:54 PM

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dh went to every appointment, except video bc he had a softball game that day. He asked if i wanted to reschedule it so he can go too but this was my 3rd time rescheduling my videography appt so i said ill just go alone. He trusted me to make the decision so he didn't mind.

Its funny because before we'd go to an appt he would talk as if i should just do whatever i wanted, but once we got there he would always talk more than i did. I really didnt mind either, i did all the research so for me it was like ok good you talk most of the time so i can finally sit back on something

lanamanitta Posted: Jul 29, 2008 06:22 PM

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He is fine with me picking the vendors, except the hall of course which he was all over, but he has input on what they're doing (like the package we chose for pics, the limos, the music, etc.) The only thing he really doesn't care about is flowers, but he does look and give me his opinion, and he did come to two florist appts. with me! So far, any vendor I've met with, he's come with me.

melcc83 Posted: Jul 29, 2008 07:28 PM

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of course I do most of the work, but CHris had came with me to every vendor appt. His feelings are if im writing a chack to thses people Im gonna be there

missjones2007 Posted: Jul 29, 2008 07:33 PM

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Im going to be honest:
FH is no freakin help at all!
I love him to pieces but all he says is 'That'll work babe!' or ' I don know what you think?'
ugh!!!

shell1879 Posted: Jul 29, 2008 08:07 PM

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Jon would love to see vendors with me although his misstress the Army gets all the attention lately.
When I do talk to vendors if i'm there in person and hes not I put my cell on speaker phone so he can somewhat feel like he's there.
I know it kills him to not be able be there for things and for us but this is the careere he chose and he loves it so i support him 5000000% I try as hard as I can to keep up the morale.... he loves the care packages we send espcially the ones with pictures and letters from my daughter oh and home made brownies

KellymKuehn Posted: Jul 29, 2008 08:18 PM

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I actually asked FH last night what he cared about and what he didn't care about. I wanted to know what I shouldnt bother him with (last time that scared him away).
Mostly he cares about the music, food, and tuxes. we agreed that everything else I do and he takes a look at before I make any finalizations.

ace730 Posted: Jul 29, 2008 08:21 PM

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My fiance basically is leaving it all up to me. I shop around the different vendors, make my final pick and then clue him in on who I have chosen and he goes to the final meeting.

dazies1011 Posted: Jul 29, 2008 08:27 PM

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FH didnt really care to go with me but, he did some of them. He went to the videographer, DJ and florist. Also to see some RH's not, all of them.
Next is the officiant and he HAS to go to that one

beram63 Posted: Jul 29, 2008 09:14 PM

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FH needs prodding to show an interest in the wedding, but he is as involved with vendors as I urge him to be because he wants to help share the responsibility. i think he just needs a lot of guidance.

he's been 'looking for DJs' for over 2 months but i love him anyway

Sweets14 Posted: Jul 29, 2008 09:23 PM

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The only one he really isn't interested in is the florist. Otherwise i've been pleasantly surprised!!

ttdiff11 Posted: Jul 29, 2008 10:16 PM

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yea, i obv do most of the work, research, etc but he has come to every vendor with me!

flairforfashion Posted: Jul 29, 2008 10:18 PM

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My FH liked going with me to the vendors. He was interested in the whole process and was really good with making deals. I LOVE him! The best part is he went to see Duet while I was at work and booked them.

kristentinnelly Posted: Jul 29, 2008 10:26 PM

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FH doesnt want to go to the vendors. I only wanted him at the DJ appointment that he went to and he said he will go to the food tasting, meet with the travel agent for the honeymoon, and help pick the limos. Other then that he just wants me to do it all. Its better this way since I wouldnt want to deal with him complaining about the appointments he would have to go to. It makes it easier for both of us