Not horrible at all. I didnt even allow any kids at my wedding!
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Not Horrible at all... i actually 'thought' about everyone's kids as I made my guest list out... needless to say people with hyper kids were not even invited because I have to have kids there because FH's family is ALL from the Boston area. So they have to travel and I can't expect them to come without the kids. Thankfully their children are well behaved. So there were some people NOT invited (friends I am not close to anymore and such) because of the children situation.
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Not horrible at all. I didnt even allow any kids at my wedding!
Thanks! I feel bad....but I am just picturing him going up to the cake and sticking his booger picking fingers in it! I'm so horrible! But it's sooo true!
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Not Horrible at all... i actually 'thought' about everyone's kids as I made my guest list out... needless to say people with hyper kids were not even invited because I have to have kids there because FH's family is ALL from the Boston area. So they have to travel and I can't expect them to come without the kids. Thankfully their children are well behaved. So there were some people NOT invited (friends I am not close to anymore and such) because of the children situation.
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ur not horrible you just dont want anything to go wrong.....no children are coming to mine
ok......my 8 YEAR OLD NEPHEW (from DH) was sitting at our table and freaking out bc the DJ was not playing music he knew (it was frank sinatra btw) and he got himself so worked up that he THREW UP on my plate!!!!!!! (ya he's a littttttle spoiled)
ok.....threw up.....on my plate....and table. Luckily i didn't witness this, but life went on. The MD and BA took care of it and i had no idea until much later.
Nothing will ruin your day. Don't freak out about stuff like this. Unless he throws up on you, the party will go on
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I don't want kids at my wedding. It's not horrible at all...but I would find a way to really make sure that she won't bring him!!!! I would even hire a babysitter just to avoid potential booger sundaes
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So his sister is in the wedding? I'm confused? If these are sibling and they are your aunt and uncles children you can not NOT invite him. That would be rude, and if you invited cousins then invite them all. I think(JMHO) that if you exclude him you will casue more problems then you want. Try to think about how you would feel..JMHO
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All over your Mom's Dress???? Oh dear!!!!! Mary MOB
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All over your Mom's Dress???? Oh dear!!!!! Mary MOB
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Maybe this would help
Please....he would find a way to walk around in it!
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All over your Mom's Dress???? Oh dear!!!!! Mary MOB
Yea....again...where were his parents?!?!?!?
My mom saw that he was getting pale in the face and tried to hold his hand to bring him to the bathroom instead he turned in front of her and threw up on her dress!
Oh, Anna!!!!!! Debi is not having any children at the wedding other than those in the BP, for some of the same possible reasons you've stated. If the young man you're talking about, has already proven he can't behave, because parents are not watching him, then you have a right to feel the way you do. Mary MOB
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ok......my 8 YEAR OLD NEPHEW (from DH) was sitting at our table and freaking out bc the DJ was not playing music he knew (it was frank sinatra btw) and he got himself so worked up that he THREW UP on my plate!!!!!!! (ya he's a littttttle spoiled)
ok.....threw up.....on my plate....and table. Luckily i didn't witness this, but life went on. The MD and BA took care of it and i had no idea until much later.
Nothing will ruin your day. Don't freak out about stuff like this. Unless he throws up on you, the party will go on
eeeuuuuuwwwwww!!!!!!! That should just not happen on your beautiful day!!!!! Mary MOB
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All over your Mom's Dress???? Oh dear!!!!! Mary MOB
Yea....again...where were his parents?!?!?!?
My mom saw that he was getting pale in the face and tried to hold his hand to bring him to the bathroom instead he turned in front of her and threw up on her dress!
Oh, Anna!!!!!! Debi is not having any children at the wedding other than those in the BP, for some of the same possible reasons you've stated. If the young man you're talking about, has already proven he can't behave, because parents are not watching him, then you have a right to feel the way you do. Mary MOB
thanks Mary! I just know the way he is and that his parents will not watch him! I don't mean to be bridezilla about this but I KNOW something will happen!