Hey Girls.. So i consider myself veryyy lucky my FH wants to be very involved in everything. which he should be its his wedding also! We are only 2 months into our engagement and i have a feeling once things start to get very detail he might slowly step away! But, as of right now i have a little bit of a Groomzilla on my hands lol! Im already being told he wants 80's music played ALOT at the wedding and i picked out invited for the engagement party and we have to have them costum done. he is a graphic artist which comes into use with planning a wedding i see i am thankful.. BUT the invites need to be out this weekend and he is just finishing up the design .. im praying we get them to the printer and out on time! As he keeps telling me all the things he is having at the wedding i just keep asking him.. will i be invited? lol
So to my questions.. how are all the FH dealing with the planning?
jackieee
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I do the researching, organizing, calling places, etc. I narrow things done and then he comes with me to the appointments and gives his input.
I don't think he's going to go to the flower appt though because he doesn't care.
Music will be a big part, and I know we will make a HUGE music list of must plays together.
adelya21
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i do all the research and everything and ask him to go see some vendors like bands etc. lol i dont mind though I love the planning.
evita2781
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My sisters are really involved in the planning. I just ask my FH for his opinion and most of the time he agrees on what I want. He always says that he's okay with everything but I don't think that's the case...
cynn81
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FH is absolutely wonderful with the planning of our wedding. He wants to be included in every aspect of this wedding. I too think I have a GROOMZILLA on my hands. The other night we were having dinner and out of no where is started talking about the type of tux he wants and how he wants it to match my color scheme! I was highly impressed with him
I am the one that goes crazy thinking about how we are over budget, FH on the other hand is so relaxed and laid back about it and is always comforting me. He already told me that when its time to look at invites he must be there and the two of us make the decision together. I do love my FH <3