I would say about 50%. He was all about the limo, DJ, RH and hotel for the night of the wedding. Evyerhthing else, he can care les about.
AlBaBride
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He's been pretty good...In the beginning, he wasn't involved as much as I wished he would have been...but then again he doesn't really understand the 'big wedding' and all of its details. He's been really great about looking for vendors and has pretty much gone along with everything I've wanted so far.
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Posted by PaddysGirl15
he;s very involved- sometimes too involved!! but overall he is a big help!
mine too....
MrsOlszewski
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FH has been so helpful....he's actually the one making all the calls and apt. with vendors...it's such a big help!!
jenn122397
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more involved than i expected! He has come with me to every appointment (except flowers but that was because his mom was in teh hospital). He is very active in planning
Michy
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He is extremly involved. He lets me do a lot of the decision making on things I know well but on things that he wants perfect like music I let him make a lot of the decisions. It is working out really well.
He helps if I bother him enough about it, but not happily.. if I left things to him, they'd never get done at all!
snydl40
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He has been very involved in everything.
SusanAdam
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He has tried to be as helpful as he can, but it's hard since he works in the city and is gone almost 12-14 hours a day. He missed out on the reception hall search since I went while he was at work, but went with me to see it before we booked. Weekends he dedicates to calling places and making appointments. I didn't expect him to be so involved. I'm so glad he is as excited as I am...well, except flowers and colors aren't his thing.
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Quite involved and I hope it stays that way!
He definitely doesn't express the excitement as much as I do though... which I don't expect from him anyway He's just not like that.
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he is involved.. he knows he doesn't really have much say though!!!
Same here
I left the HM to him though! [which is why it's NOT booked yet!!]
rachie
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He is involved and I love that Its both of us getting married not one of us
JazzyT
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FH can't even decide on his GM; he had two jobs the hall and the HM and he's paying for the hall and the HM we are having major issues on where to go...... so much for FH
leshellem
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he goes on appts but thats it. i ask for his opinion and its whatever you want. I am so done with this planning not fun at all.
tonimike
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I do all the reasearch & he comes in from there .. he as been involved every step of the way , thats how it should be , its his wedding too,,
causeimb
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Not at all, said he just wants to show up and say I do. SInce Im the one that wants this wedding, he would be happy going to city hall
giggles62
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He is very involved. He does not get to go on alot of appt's but we make final decisions together.
lilqtpie2181
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he does everythig with me!! i love it
uncqt02
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My FH has been surpisingly great! He always said he'd rather do something small than have a big wedding, but once we started the process he has gone with me to all the meetings (except this summer when he studied for the Bar). He even went to the florist appointments and actually made insightful comments. Now all I need is for him to get his mother off my back
