how involved has your fh been....

Original post by kewlpuff

Oct 02, 2006 06:13 PM

in wedding planning so far?

snugglesInLove Posted: Oct 03, 2006 01:28 PM

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Very involved!

MnM52607 Posted: Oct 03, 2006 01:32 PM

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He wants to be involved in everything. He is pretty helpful. I just have to push him to agree to go to appointments and stuff. But overall, he is being great.

prettyprincess07 Posted: Oct 03, 2006 03:49 PM

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Posted by JazzyT

FH can't even decide on his GM; he had two jobs the hall and the HM and he's paying for the hall and the HM we are having major issues on where to go...... so much for FH

Ohh try this find out first how long you want to be on your HM. Once you do that wrtie down on seperate pieces of paper where you want to go ( pick at least 5). Put it in a hat or bag and shake it up. You pick 1st (your the bride) he picks second. Then after you pick the places research how much it will cost and deciede why you want to chose one of the two places. This way your discussion is about 2 places instead of a really long list of places. Hope this helps

MNM7to7 Posted: Oct 03, 2006 05:10 PM

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He is very involved in every aspect...and even wants to pick out the BM dresses & color...
I have to draw the line at that one though!!!

JenMike331 Posted: Oct 03, 2006 07:41 PM

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pleassssssssse!!!!.....i tell everyone that when he walks into fox hollow on 3/31 he's gonna be like 'wow i didn't know this....i didnt know that' he'll be walking in like he's one of the guests for god$ sake

JassyandOscar Posted: Oct 03, 2006 07:43 PM

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He went to the Bridal extravaganza on 9/17, visited Fox Hollow with me once and has gotten most of the contact info from his side - That's about it!!!

kewlpuff Posted: Oct 04, 2006 01:51 PM

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Posted by MrsBartonToBe

Posted by sugarkube4

he is involved.. he knows he doesn't really have much say though!!!
Same here

I left the HM to him though! [which is why it's NOT booked yet!!]

same here~~

Lissy3077 Posted: Oct 04, 2006 08:43 PM

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he is very involved with our wedding plans, i'm so grateful for that!!!

kewlpuff Posted: Oct 10, 2006 01:58 PM

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bump for the newbies on the board!

2Be1 Posted: Oct 10, 2006 02:03 PM

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I am so blessed to say that FH is very involved, I couldn't do it without him. . . I'd totally turn into a head spinng bridezilla.

AMANDA2378 Posted: Oct 10, 2006 02:13 PM

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Posted by MissMaster13

BARELY!!! But if I make a decision, there he is being all concerned like he gave a crap the WHOLE time I was planning, calling, making appointments and stuff...NICE!

yeah, im the one planning and researching, but he has come everywhere with me, but whenit comes down to detail....ill be on my own!!!

HamptonsBride Posted: Oct 10, 2006 02:18 PM

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his job is to pay for it all...haha...i only dragged him to one hall (the one we booked) and to the DJ...the rest i did on my own...and I am fine with that! Makes my life easier

jennd311 Posted: Oct 10, 2006 02:52 PM

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completely. he is involved with everything so far. I have to say I am thrilled with all he wants to do.

jessandjimiswedding Posted: Oct 10, 2006 03:42 PM

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he is involved for a minute. then he forgets and then gets mad at me if he doesn't know anything!

and right now i'm sick, so i keep saying i'm gonna die and he's like but i can't plan this wedding by myself if you're gonna die.

lucite Posted: Oct 10, 2006 04:08 PM

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My FH loves to get involved, but my Dad is a Dadzilla and takes over. FH just let's Dad do all the running around with me and then FH and I ultimately make our decisions. We are very amused by his Dadzilla behavior and we're letting him have his fun. This is a man who didn't get involved in his own wedding. My mom claims she did everything herself.

Angiebeeen Posted: Oct 10, 2006 04:10 PM

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HE IS VERYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY INVOLVED!!! HE goes to all the appointments everything to the favors...

everything

but i love it I am glad i am not doing this on my own

tbone66 Posted: Oct 10, 2006 07:22 PM

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My FH came with me to some RH's and to see some bands. He did not care about photos/video. He is more concerned about how much everything costs. He is prob going to want to see the hotels and limos.

jgl Posted: Oct 10, 2006 07:28 PM

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more than I thought.

When i mention an idea or show soemeone soemthing he wants to add his opinion and he always says that we are in this together so we should do it together .. it's about US!

That makes me so happy, he even helped stuff e-party invites

PegaLega Posted: Oct 10, 2006 11:29 PM

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HE is very involved-we went to pick out our hall together, he picked out our invitations, I showed him the flowers I liked and he picked his favorites-he even picked out what style tuxes the GMs and himself are going to wear

He has been really good-and has let me have alot of what i wanted