We're all busy and involved in our wedding planning and chit chatting about it but was just curious as to how involved your FH was in the planning? Mine is very involved- he reads the bridal mags, makes the appts, seacrches for vendors, really is honest about what he likes and doe snot like, etc.
How about yours?
gbrwneyez1581
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Well here searched for our venue. I do the search for the vendors and he puts his imput whether he likes them or not. He use to watch the shows w/me but now he bored from the reruns
Just Cindy
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Not invloved at all. He puts the deposit on the vendors and thats it.
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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He pretty much says 'whatever you like' to most things i ask his opinion on LOL but hes genuinely excited about it all
michesq
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i must admit- mine knows what he likes. honestly sometimes i say who's the bride to myself lol lol
FutureMrsMacci
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Honestly FH is tired of talking wedding lol
But for his benefit, it is tax season, his worst time of year and I have not stopped talking wedding since we got engaged, and I have been driving him crazy because I want all of our vendors booked! So basically he has had no breathing room
I CANT HELP IT!
Marissa09Bride
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He tried to be involved, but got really bored when meeting with vendors so now he wants me to handle everything. His cop out is that he's not interested in the big wedding stuff, he just wants to marry me.
T E R I
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Not invloved at all. He puts the deposit on the vendors and thats it.
Your FH sounds like mine
missjones2007
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Posted by FutureMrsMacci
Honestly FH is tired of talking wedding lol
But for his benefit, it is tax season, his worst time of year and I have not stopped talking wedding since we got engaged, and I have been driving him crazy because I want all of our vendors booked! So basically he has had no breathing room
I CANT HELP IT!
same as my FH....he told me to think about something else besides the wedding but it's addictive!
VickiR510
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FH is also very involved. He loves checking out teh vendors with me. Has alot of input & we are finding out more & more how alike we are. We have so much of the same taste. Its so cute!
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Chris is really involved. We have to agree on a vendor before we sign. He flips through the mags and gives his honest opinion. He even helped me make the favors for the eparty next week.
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LOL..he wishes i would just stop talking about it. my house is full of wedding mags..tv is always on wedding shows and i am constantly emailing him venue stuff. he hates it. his mom is against a wedding as is my parents. they feel its a waste of money and i think he secretly hopes i would just drop it. we got our first venue quote yesterday and he looked like he was about to have a heart attack...
michesq
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i know it is so nice when they share in everything and way too cute
JackieV
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FH is very involved. Its good because we agree on everything. I think i do more for the wedding bc i have more time. But he also does alot.
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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LOL..he wishes i would just stop talking about it. my house is full of wedding mags..tv is always on wedding shows and i am constantly emailing him venue stuff. he hates it. his mom is against a wedding as is my parents. they feel its a waste of money and i think he secretly hopes i would just drop it. we got our first venue quote yesterday and he looked like he was about to have a heart attack...
yeah me n fh had the thought today... why are we having a wedding when we could just use the money as a down payment on a condo
bkposh
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LOL..he wishes i would just stop talking about it. my house is full of wedding mags..tv is always on wedding shows and i am constantly emailing him venue stuff. he hates it. his mom is against a wedding as is my parents. they feel its a waste of money and i think he secretly hopes i would just drop it. we got our first venue quote yesterday and he looked like he was about to have a heart attack...
yeah me n fh had the thought today... why are we having a wedding when we could just use the money as a down payment on a condo
yah the money spent on a wedding is nuts...the truth is we have been together 9 years so i think people are like...whatever.....i would probably rather just have a nice long honeymoon and then buy a place but then will i regret it later????hmm i dunno i think i probably would.
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Mine wasn't really able to be too involved - he lives in Maryland, but this break he really stepped it up! I think I am grateful for this, except he likes a different photographer than I do, which has just delayed on decision on this vendor even more - going to see 12th and Artisan tomorrow. Hoping these will solidify a decision.
MaggieLuvsJoe
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FH is just as involved as I want him to be for the most part....he comes to see the vendors but I make the appts and everything else....he just kinda agrees with me on what I like (annoying sometimes)
He is really only concerned with what TV he's going to have, how comfortable the couch is going to be and what kind of food we're going to have at the reception.
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I do 98% of it but, thats ok with me til I really need his input
