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How involved is your FH?

JBC12510 Posted:

How involved is your FH?

Not that this is a bad thing, but I have not made a decision on my own with the exception of my wedding dress.... anyone elses FH reserving veto power on everything?

Lucky2010 Posted:

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We booked all the major things together and I asked his opinion on things like the invitations, but most others things I just do/tell him.

JenBill61210 Posted:

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not everything but on certain things he felt were important to him. for instance, flowers he didn't give a crap about
CloudNine Posted:

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mine did. he was involved in everything except the flowers and the cake.

StaceyWill Posted:

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Mine was involved in everything~he even picked out our CP's and of course our limo (he HAD to have a Bentley).

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AngnShaun Posted:

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On a scale of 1-10 hes at 0.

BriansWifey Posted:

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even if dh veto's anything i would overpower his veto, lmfao.
Lsorrent Posted:

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I'm lucky my FH even knows the wedding date

I jest......he came with me for RH, photog, band, and limo appts. He went for his tux. He helped pick the hotel. He came for food tasting.

Other than that.........he hasn't done anything.
Lsorrent Posted:

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Posted by AngnShaun

On a scale of 1-10 hes at 0.





Mine's at a -10
canmigs Posted:

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Mine swears I can do what I want because he 'trusts my taste' until I ask him about something and he is full of opinions!! He's such a PITA!!! But I love him anyways!!

AngnShaun Posted:

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Posted by Lsorrent


Posted by AngnShaun

On a scale of 1-10 hes at 0.





Mine's at a -10



he did come to the florist when we booked... and obviously to the RH to sign the contract... but other than that...

grkbarbie Posted:

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not really involved. and its great. i only wish he would help around the house more this week. like put dishes away and clean hisplayroom lol.

boys will be boys
halfbaked Posted:

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I do all the leg work while FH b!tches and moans and pulls faces.

ETA: In all honesty, he comes to all appointments and has given me his opinion on everything except flowers. He's even gone groomzilla on a few things.
MisyMiss32 Posted:

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John ( my FH) has been invovled in the entire process. The only thing he has no clue about is my wedding dress.
MR1223 Posted:

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mine is very involved with everything - the only thing i've done on my own is get my dress and go to 2 florist appointments.

MrsC2010 Posted:

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hes been really involved. the smaller details he doesnt care as much about but i always get his opinion anyway.

CaseyNTim Posted:

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He said he wanted to be apart of everything so i just mention things to him and his response is always 'yea yea thats fine' except when we went to go look at wedding bands, he was so picky about mine- only thing he was a pain in the @$$ about lol

Forgot to mention- the best part about him is when i am having such a hard time making a decision- he helps me pick the better one, and hes always right I love it!!
luckycouple05 Posted:

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my FH and I have made the decisions together.
He's awesome!
GiannisWifey Posted:

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actually, he has been very involved and helpful. Little things, like slipper baskets, bathroom baskets, etc, he could care less.....but he has been helpful and given me opinions and has even offered to help me by giving him a to-do list so he can help........ we booked every major together and has always come to appts and even called some vendors on his own
barbtony Posted:

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He had input on RH, transportation, DJ and officiant - other than that - he can't really be bothered.

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