How involved is your FH?

Original post by JBC12510

Apr 21, 2010 01:34 PM

Not that this is a bad thing, but I have not made a decision on my own with the exception of my wedding dress.... anyone elses FH reserving veto power on everything?

Jna2010 Posted: Apr 21, 2010 02:05 PM

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we picked the RH together, and he came with me to the photographer appointments other than that its alllll meeeeee

SoontobeMrs.Brown Posted: Apr 21, 2010 02:11 PM

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Posted by JenBill61210

not everything but on certain things he felt were important to him. for instance, flowers he didn't give a crap about

Same here!

whispersamethyst Posted: Apr 21, 2010 02:13 PM

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He's been pretty involved. I make the appointments with vendors, he shows up, we review, and decide. I just lay the options before him, and he gets a say on which he thinks is best.

AdriandSteve Posted: Apr 21, 2010 02:13 PM

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FH's been involved in everything except the hotel. B/c of my work schedule he even went to look at a photographer w/o me by himself.

FH's been as involved as much as he can.

cateydee Posted: Apr 21, 2010 02:14 PM

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Posted by MrsC2010

hes been really involved. the smaller details he doesnt care as much about but i always get his opinion anyway.

same

Roccosgirl Posted: Apr 21, 2010 04:35 PM

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Posted by bellaitalian618

We booked all the major things together and I asked his opinion on things like the invitations, but most others things I just do/tell him.

same here. I think the only thing I didnt involve him in at all were the flowers.

futureMrsJSL Posted: Apr 21, 2010 04:38 PM

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I do the research on vendors and then we go to appointments and decide to book or not book together.

lori7570 Posted: Apr 21, 2010 04:53 PM

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He's been pretty involved - at times due to our schedules I had to go see vendors myself. But he doesn't mind letting me talk to him about things and is helping with a lot of DIY stuff.

Jtruran Posted: Apr 21, 2010 04:57 PM

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FH did most of the major vendors and THAT's it...he didn't even know what our invite looked like....

mrsdraskin2009 Posted: Apr 21, 2010 04:59 PM

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Posted by AngnShaun

On a scale of 1-10 hes at 0.

Can Tim be a -0???

Bee12 Posted: Apr 21, 2010 05:32 PM

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Posted by AngnShaun

On a scale of 1-10 hes at 0.

Bee12 Posted: Apr 21, 2010 05:33 PM

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Posted by futureMrsJSL

I do the research on vendors and then we go to appointments and decide to book or not book together.

Ditto

kris_gets_hitched Posted: Apr 21, 2010 05:40 PM

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He's pretty involved.

We visited RHs, photogs, and DJs together.

He took me to a florist appointment, though he wasn't 'into' it, he still was cool with going.

He had a big part in finding out officiant.

He made the appointment for our wedding rings.

We picked out invites together...he even helped stuff them and everything.

It's pretty cool that he's planning this WITH me...it's OUR day, after all.

Oh and....he's attended one LIW G2G, TWOTY, and Roz's wedding...and has bonded with a couple of other grooms...and now they think they're starting a band.

AwaitingAugust Posted: Apr 21, 2010 05:50 PM

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my FH has gone to all wedding appointments with me, and has been involved in every decision and purchase. he even helped me DIY our invitations and favors

bluj786 Posted: Apr 21, 2010 05:54 PM

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yes and no, hes more invloved now with like the flowers and invites but less in the other stuff. there is plenty of stuff that he doesnt even know about.

flibbertigibbet Posted: Apr 21, 2010 06:33 PM

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barely. he'll do things if i ask him to but i dont think he really cares what anything looks like.

he just wants to show up and be present that day.

marinai7 Posted: Apr 22, 2010 09:10 AM

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FH is involved with me on pretty much everything, but I'm usually the final say anyway, lol. We talk everything out together though.

NYYankeeGirl72 Posted: Apr 22, 2010 09:28 AM

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All FH was involved in was the selection of the RH . He wanted to at least taste the food and see the location.

As for all other vendors, he left it up to me as long as they were not mad expensive. As for everything else, invites, hotel, etc. I made all the decisions.

dctead Posted: Apr 22, 2010 09:35 AM

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I am the same... my FH has full say on everything except my dress.

Though I will say he is very good at 'it's what ever you want'... and I'm usually the 'we can't.. its not in the budget' one.. lol