Mine hasnt really been involved much. I send them emails to keep them up with what we have been doing so they can never say we left them out. They ask once and a while how things are going.
PegaLega
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Very, they are very interested in everything. Which doesnt bother me only b/c my parents just say 'whatever you want'!!!
Which when you need help deciding DOES NOT help at all! But they are also not pushy about anything!
ksl268
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Not very much at all. Occasionally FMIL will ask some questions about the planning so far. That's the extent of it!
soon2bmrsdunn
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Not involved at all. I mean FH has a weird relationship with them. he hates them knowing too much info. I basically tell them when things are booked. They usually don't ask any or too many questions. I'm okay with it. Less people involved = less headaches for me.
snydl40
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Somewhat-my FMIL and FSIL want to start getting more involved-so the next bridal to come up-we're going.
hunnybunnyxoxo
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Not really involved at all. Getting them to talk about the wedding is like pulling teeth sometimes - basically if i don't bring anything up they don't ask It used to bother me at first but now I don't let it phase me.
ditto!! same thing here!
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My FH's parents are a GODSEND!!!! FH's mom especially. She is a school teacher so she has the summer off and everyday before I go to work she asks if there is anything wedding related that she can do for me. She's not overbearing and judgemental. Whatever FH and I decide she loves and gives us really good input. FH & I both want to pay for this ourselves being that it's a 2nd time for both of us and had considerable help with the 1st ones but they still are insisting with giving $ toward the day. I thank God for them everyday!!! for the Future In Laws!!!
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Posted by pupidda122505
Not really involved at all. Getting them to talk about the wedding is like pulling teeth sometimes - basically if i don't bring anything up they don't ask It used to bother me at first but now I don't let it phase me.
Same here,but I think it might be beause they had a lot going on, they recently just moved down to Florida, so I don't know it this will make them more or even less envolved.
MichLiz213
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They're great. His mom picks up catalogs and magazines, she even bought me my wedding planner.
Captsarkasm
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Right now...they're no help at all....but I can't really blame them. Their daughter is getting married this year, so I understand their focus on THAT wedding.....
My FMIL already told me that since my mom lives kinda far (florida) if I ever want someone to go shopping with or just bounce Ideas off of, she'll fill in. I REALLY REALLY appreciated the offer, but i'm not sure that i'd feel as comfortable with her....obviously.
