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How late does FH stay out when he is out with the guys?
Original post by MizStinker
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My husband goes out on the weekends with his friends and usually doesn't come home till 3-4 am. I use to get really upset by that but it really doesn't bother me anymore. I trust him completely. I just ask the courtesy of a phone call to pick him up if he has had tooo much to drink.
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Total opposite here....I'm the one who goes out with friends still..though not often (I have a 10 month old). Maybe once every 2 months. My husband doesn't go out much but when I go out I tend to stay out late. The same would apply if he went out. I wouldn't mind when he got home
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Dh does at least one night a week with friends, he alternates tue and fri.
Tuesdays he is usually home by 1, fridays he is never home before 2, sometimes not till 4.
I used to get mad at the 4am thing, but got over it.
He is out playing cards with his friends, he is safe, is not spending too much money, and I am usually alseep by the time he gets home. It makes him happy, so I don't make a fuss.
About setting rules, I couldn't give him rules if I tried. (and I wouldn't follow his)
I would never forbid him to do anything, the most I would do is tell him how I feel and hope he respects my feelings (which he USUALLY does)
Tuesdays he is usually home by 1, fridays he is never home before 2, sometimes not till 4.
I used to get mad at the 4am thing, but got over it.
He is out playing cards with his friends, he is safe, is not spending too much money, and I am usually alseep by the time he gets home. It makes him happy, so I don't make a fuss.
About setting rules, I couldn't give him rules if I tried. (and I wouldn't follow his)
I would never forbid him to do anything, the most I would do is tell him how I feel and hope he respects my feelings (which he USUALLY does)
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Re: How late does FH stay out when he is out with the guys?
Posted by Sunny
About setting rules, I couldn't give him rules if I tried. (and I wouldn't follow his)
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you took the words right out of my mouth
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Re: How late does FH stay out when he is out with the guys?
Fh doesn't go out to frequently with the guys but when he does he goes out till whenever (2, 3 o'clock I guess). It doesn't bother me
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my husband and I broke up partly because of this. He loved to go out, before and after we got married. he is a social butterfly and the town we live in doesnt help.
Now, I am not the type to care at all if my husband goes out with his friends or give rules- I love to go out to but there is a time to come home. but he wouldnt come home until 3,4,5,6,sometimes 7am and sometimes without a phone call. It started off once and awhile but then it became worse- my husband also has a drinking etc problem so it didnt help... we would go out together and have a good time and when I was ready to go home, he still wanted to stay out- which in the beginning was fine but when he didnt come home until the morning thats when I tried to put my foot down and make some rules. obviously it didnt work..
bottom line is that I didnt care if he went out but there is a time and a place to come home or call... he didnt respect any of that....
Now, I am not the type to care at all if my husband goes out with his friends or give rules- I love to go out to but there is a time to come home. but he wouldnt come home until 3,4,5,6,sometimes 7am and sometimes without a phone call. It started off once and awhile but then it became worse- my husband also has a drinking etc problem so it didnt help... we would go out together and have a good time and when I was ready to go home, he still wanted to stay out- which in the beginning was fine but when he didnt come home until the morning thats when I tried to put my foot down and make some rules. obviously it didnt work..
bottom line is that I didnt care if he went out but there is a time and a place to come home or call... he didnt respect any of that....
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My hubby's friend time usually consists of watching football games on Sunday. He is great about it though. He usually comes home a little while after the game ends. He does not really go to bars etc...with his friends. Sometimes we go together, but it isnt often. If I have a girls night he may go out, just like if he has plans I may go out. But he does not stay out late. He has been so great like that.
