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How long before the wedding did you send the invites out?

MrsP2Be Posted:

How long before the wedding did you send the invites out?

Had a fight with my parents. They think that sending them out 2 months before the wedding (a month before RSVP date) is TOO early.

We don't have a lot of out of town guests, didn't send many STD's out since we had a situation with his parents not willing to pay for an overflow of guests at the time.

I think 2 months before the wedding is perfect.
chapel06 Posted:

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If it makes you feel any better I am sending mine out three months before the wedding and two months before the RSVP date. I just want to get them out of my hair rather then seeing them sitting around here for another month.

cindyandkevin Posted:

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Invitations went out March 27
RSVP was May 1
Our wedding was June 10

I think they went out about 10 weeks prior to the wedding, giving our guests 5 weeks to respond. It may seem early but I'm glad bc it was a lot less stressful having extra time to get everything together in the end.
ewickens Posted:

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I'm getting married 9/16 - I mailed mine out 2 weeks ago, a little over 2 months. People say you get a lot of RSVPs at the start, but I'm not right now. Doesn't hurt to send them out early - get some early drawers.

Summer101 Posted:

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2 and half months before the wedding

M&LSept1606 Posted:

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my wedding date is 9/16. we sent ours out today as a matter of fact.

johnsae Posted:

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about 12 weeks

sarahthegreat Posted:

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we send ours out 6 weeks before the rsvp date, about 2 months before the wedding.

2 months is perfect b/c guests need time to prepare, take time off work, make travel arrangements, etc. its not really fair to give them less then that
augustbride12 Posted:

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We sent them out 2 months before the wedding.... one month before the RSVP date. We're still sending a couple stragglers, but the majority of the invites went out then.
waterspout4 Posted:

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Wedding: 4/1
RSVP date: 3/1
Invites mailed: 1/20
CLMon7906 Posted:

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Posted by chapel06

If it makes you feel any better I am sending mine out three months before the wedding and two months before the RSVP date. I just want to get them out of my hair rather then seeing them sitting around here for another month.




that's pretty much what we did.

but 2 months is the normal time to send them. gives them 4 weeks to respond and you 4 weeks to finalize.
sunshine1813 Posted:

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Getting married in 4/07 and plan to send mine out no later the 1/15/07. RH needs final head count two weeks before

cnj Posted:

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Getting married the day before you and just sent them out today!!

It feels so good to get it done with, just do it!!
mbm750 Posted:

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We sent ours two months ahead of time. All the etiquette books I've read say 6-8 weeks. Good luck!

xcalystax Posted:

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Posted by MrsP2Be

Had a fight with my parents. They think that sending them out 2 months before the wedding (a month before RSVP date) is TOO early.

We don't have a lot of out of town guests, didn't send many STD's out since we had a situation with his parents not willing to pay for an overflow of guests at the time.

I think 2 months before the wedding is perfect.



I think 2 months is perfect!
BRod-Cheng Posted:

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Posted by xcalystax


Posted by MrsP2Be

Had a fight with my parents. They think that sending them out 2 months before the wedding (a month before RSVP date) is TOO early.

We don't have a lot of out of town guests, didn't send many STD's out since we had a situation with his parents not willing to pay for an overflow of guests at the time.

I think 2 months before the wedding is perfect.



I think 2 months is perfect!



I also think 2 months is perfect.

My wedding date is July 15th - I sent my invites out on May 9th with a June 10th RSVP date.

It was great having the extra time to track down all of the people who did not RSVP in time.
MrsP2Be Posted:

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Thanks, hopefully I'll get the bulk of them out soon.
edsprincess Posted:

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I think I sent them out about 4 months early. Rumors where going around that a certain family member who was not invited wanted to sent half the family on vacation to be a b****! And our RSVP date was 1 month before. So it didn't seem too early. And I also ordered them once i found the ones that I loved. Just to scratch it off the list!

kara10152006 Posted:

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Sending August 1st
RSVP September 15th
Wedding October 15th

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