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How many BM's...

Jayla127 Posted:

How many BM's...

are you having? I know I posted this before in the beginning. But, now since alot of brides have booked their RH, it's a bit more real. Has anyone decided or asked yet?

I like the idea that some brides on the boards have used and send out an invite asking them to be a prospective BM?

How are you planning on asking?
Ms SunnShinne Posted:

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6 I think and I'm going to ask them at my e-party

kabo0831 Posted:

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3

mdawg Posted:

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im having 1 MOH and 3 BMs.... and i have informally asked them all, but formally i'm doing something at the engagement party.

egem523 Posted:

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I am having six

I have 4 sisters who I did not have to ask because they knew they were my wedding

My MOH is my cousin who I just asked

and I hope my FSIL wants to be part of the party. I have not asked her yet but I am trying to come up with something fun.
MrsCtobe Posted:

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I'm going to have 5 or 6 I think depending on the groomsmen actually. My FH has so many guys that he is close with, that I'm really letting his picks dictate the number. I'll probably ask around Christmas time so that they are not expecting a card that says 'Will you be my bridesmaid?' and there can be some element of surprise.

little34 Posted:

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3 girls for me and he is having 4 GM...so one of my girls will walk down with 2 guys... I asked them one night when we were all together getting drinks.

ponzita18 Posted:

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1 moh
7 bridesmaids
7 groomsmen
1 best man
1 ring bearer

i asked them all already.
olivia30 Posted:

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2. I already asked them, nothing formal, they are my friends from birth so they know the deal
lookitscassie Posted:

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1 MOH & 3 BM

my b i t c h e s for life
amandamh23 Posted:

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3 girls 3 guys not sure yet about fg & rb

ellyoxox Posted:

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most likely 1 moh & 4 bm's. i haven't 'officially' asked everyone yet. i'll probably get them each a card asking them to be a bm and then give them each a little something.

TlovesD Posted:

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right now im having 1 MOH and 2 Flower girls.

Not sure if im going to add 2 bridesmaids or not.
enewedding Posted:

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1 MOH
1 BM
1 FG

I think i am going to take my MOH to lunch and then send my BM a cookie thing asking her and maybe something little girlish like by her a doll for my FG.


i am waiting until we book to ask. (hopefully labor day weekend we will book) i am pretty sure that MOH knows.
NYMetsBride Posted:

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1 MOH
1 Best Man
3 BM
5 Junior BM
2 Junior GM
1 RB
1 FG
And my sister and my brother in law will be our Godparents (this is common in the Hispanic tradition)

I was originally going to have my sister as my MOH but my FH has already chosen his best man so I do not want to show disrespect to my brother in law.
dazies1011 Posted:

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Depending on my sister....
1 MOH
3 BMS
or
1 MOH
1-2 BMS
1 FG
1 RB
3-4 GM
mcclj74 Posted:

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5 BM
1 MOH
1 Best Man
5 Groomsmen
mrsdraskin2009 Posted:

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Ugh...I was making my list...Right now I am at we are at 6 each (BM and GM) and that's leaving like 2 good friends off...Plus the FG and RB...I feel like for having such small families we are having a huge bridal party
FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted:

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I think I will end up with 1 MOH and like 3-4 BM's
I havent asked anyone yet though... I'll ask them all when I need to have them go dress shopping (prob 1 yr from now) I actually dont want them involevd in much of the planning... I dont feel like they should be my 'slaves' for 2 yrs

Oh and I will also be having 2 jr BM's (Fh's nieces)!
ponzita18 Posted:

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Posted by ponzita18

1 moh
7 bridesmaids
7 groomsmen
1 best man
1 ring bearer

i asked them all already.



oh i forgot 2 junior groomsmen

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