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How many days is fh taking off BEFORE THE BIG DAY?

Original post by Spitzergirl

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I almost got into a big argument, because my fh wants to take off only 1 day before the wedding. Is that enough time for the guys to prepare

Not to mentioned, we have to do re-hersal dinner that was scheduled 2 days before the wed., to give us enough time. But, now it looks like it will have to be the night before the wedding. Who wants to be bothered..with all this the night before there wedding. Not me.

Ladies..how many days is your fh taking off before the big day?

Spitzergirl Thread views: 2,308

Re: How many days is fh taking off BEFORE THE BIG DAY?

Posted by kim52004

My wedding is on a saturday and I am taking off Wed-Fri and FI is taking off Thur-Fri. He was originally only going to take friday but his boss made him take the thursday off also which I was very happy about. His boss is a good friend of ours so he told to take the day and relax.

I agree...

2 days is good...to prepare...for fh..

Bebalina Thread views: 2,308

Re: How many days is fh taking off BEFORE THE BIG DAY?

well we're getting married on a saturday...and rehearsal dinner is on that thursday- so its his choice if he wants to take thurday off or work half a day....but friday def. taking off...for myself i'm taking both thurs and friday.

Spitzergirl Thread views: 2,308

Re: How many days is fh taking off BEFORE THE BIG DAY?

Posted by Bebalina

well we're getting married on a saturday...and rehearsal dinner is on that thursday- so its his choice if he wants to take thurday off or work half a day....but friday def. taking off...for myself i'm taking both thurs and friday.

That is my option for him...but being that he works a late schedule he has to take thurs. off.

He had the nerve to tell me.... he may not be able to make the rehersal dinner on thursday..I tell you right up and then I saw green.................

I just shut up...becuase thanks to him..he will probaly make me do the RD on the Friday night before the wedding...Annoying!!!

nan&dave Thread views: 2,308

Re: How many days is fh taking off BEFORE THE BIG DAY?

Maybe just one day. Not really sure though. Can't leave him with too many tasks, or he'll get a 'headache'. Go figure.

Spitzergirl Thread views: 2,308

Re: How many days is fh taking off BEFORE THE BIG DAY?

Posted by nan&dave

Maybe just one day. Not really sure though. Can't leave him with too many tasks, or he'll get a 'headache'. Go figure.

LOL

after I just wrote my post about him...I got a headache..............

Bebalina Thread views: 2,308

Re: How many days is fh taking off BEFORE THE BIG DAY?

Posted by Spitzergirl

Posted by Bebalina

well we're getting married on a saturday...and rehearsal dinner is on that thursday- so its his choice if he wants to take thurday off or work half a day....but friday def. taking off...for myself i'm taking both thurs and friday.

That is my option for him...but being that he works a late schedule he has to take thurs. off.

He had the nerve to tell me.... he may not be able to make the rehersal dinner on thursday..I tell you right up and then I saw green.................

I just shut up...becuase thanks to him..he will probaly make me do the RD on the Friday night before the wedding...Annoying!!!

OH NO>>>>dont do it the night before...u need to get ur rest, and relax the day b4 ...get manicures done...grly stuff....tell FH...no way...tell him he doesnt have his nails to worry about......put ur foot down

OctBride05 Thread views: 2,308

Re: How many days is fh taking off BEFORE THE BIG DAY?

he is going to take 2 days off before the wedding. that way he can get his hair cut, and help me with the last minute stuff.

Spitzergirl Thread views: 2,308

Re: How many days is fh taking off BEFORE THE BIG DAY?

Posted by Bebalina

Posted by Spitzergirl

Posted by Bebalina

well we're getting married on a saturday...and rehearsal dinner is on that thursday- so its his choice if he wants to take thurday off or work half a day....but friday def. taking off...for myself i'm taking both thurs and friday.

That is my option for him...but being that he works a late schedule he has to take thurs. off.

He had the nerve to tell me.... he may not be able to make the rehersal dinner on thursday..I tell you right up and then I saw green.................

I just shut up...becuase thanks to him..he will probaly make me do the RD on the Friday night before the wedding...Annoying!!!

OH NO>>>>dont do it the night before...u need to get ur rest, and relax the day b4 ...get manicures done...grly stuff....tell FH...no way...tell him he doesnt have his nails to worry about......put ur foot down

Babalina...you are funny

I don't know..I am to the point, that I would let the priest talk to him now!!!!

We are doing our precana on April 17th..and the priest will see us that week, and I will put the bug in his ear to talk to fh......

tinkerb30 Thread views: 2,308

Re: How many days is fh taking off BEFORE THE BIG DAY?

FH is a work-a-holic, he wanted to work the day of!!
I know he's gonna stress me out b/c he has horrible time management, whereas I'm an anxious nut who has to be early.

junebride04 Thread views: 2,308

Re: How many days is fh taking off BEFORE THE BIG DAY?

THREE DAYS!!!!

Monkeybride Thread views: 2,308

Re: How many days is fh taking off BEFORE THE BIG DAY?

1 week but that is because we are flying in to NY the week before the wedding.
Now let me assure you that if we were getting married in the same town we live in I would have to force my FH to take a day off. He loves work...what a freak!
We are also going on a 2 week HM after that. Some how its 4 weeks off from work...I can't figure out the math but that's how it worked out.
I just made the HM plans and told him he had to be off That way works best for us!

Spitzergirl Thread views: 2,308

Re: How many days is fh taking off BEFORE THE BIG DAY?

Posted by Monkeybride

1 week but that is because we are flying in to NY the week before the wedding.
Now let me assure you that if we were getting married in the same town we live in I would have to force my FH to take a day off. He loves work...what a freak!
We are also going on a 2 week HM after that. Some how its 4 weeks off from work...I can't figure out the math but that's how it worked out.
I just made the HM plans and told him he had to be off That way works best for us!

Wow...4 weeks off from work....that is great. I think I may only do 2 weeks...