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How many of us hiring a Wedding Planner?

Jess and Jon Posted:

How many of us hiring a Wedding Planner?

Hi girls,

I am interested to hear who is hiring a wedding planner and why?

I know a lot of girls are doing the DIY thing, but wanted an idea of who was getting some extra help....

Has it made a difference in negotiations with vendors such as florists, etc.?

And if you are, who are you using and is it expensive???
stephlovesseyi Posted:

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I hired a planner, she is based in Maryland and is planning my LI wedding.. I wanted someone who was close to me but had connects with NY vendors. She is AWESOME and has been such a help in every aspect of the planning, from vendor selection to choosing the dress. She speaks to all the vendors for me, gets all my questions answered, right now she is addressing my STDs for me and will be putting them in the mail next week. She is like a BFF and MOM!!

We hired her for full service planning so she is doing everything for us.. ANd yes when you have a planner you still plan your wedding, we have just hired someone to coordinate all of our logistics and help with the event design. Its money well spent, and it was not that expensive. Especially since we hired her right after we got engaged, which will mean we would have had her planning for us for 2 years. We are all done paying her now which is awesome!! Its the best wedding decision I have made!
PoppedInASnap Posted:

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I am searching. So far I am being priced low to high. All i need is someone to set up and thats it. No all day coodinator...i can handle those things myself... just put the centerpieces on the table and thats about it...

Some of the DOC dont want to hear me though. They just say 'Well for 12 hours we can give you...' and I go 'I only need you for three'

stephlovesseyi Posted:

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Posted by MrsFazz2B

I am searching. So far I am being priced low to high. All i need is someone to set up and thats it. No all day coodinator...i can handle those things myself... just put the centerpieces on the table and thats about it...

Some of the DOC dont want to hear me though. They just say 'Well for 12 hours we can give you...' and I go 'I only need you for three'




Is there a family member you can put in charge of this for you. Not some one in the BP, but someone in your family that you can trust.
PoppedInASnap Posted:

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Posted by stephlovesseyi


Posted by MrsFazz2B

I am searching. So far I am being priced low to high. All i need is someone to set up and thats it. No all day coodinator...i can handle those things myself... just put the centerpieces on the table and thats about it...

Some of the DOC dont want to hear me though. They just say 'Well for 12 hours we can give you...' and I go 'I only need you for three'




Is there a family member you can put in charge of this for you. Not some one in the BP, but someone in your family that you can trust.




they are all too worried about getting their hair ready and not having enough time between the rehearsal... yup... nice...
I really dont want my mom to do everything...shes amazing but I WANT HER TO ENJOY the day you know?

there really isn't anyone reliable on my side...not sure about fh but I dont think they would be interested!
Mrs B to Be Posted:

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I luck out....i work for one on the side so i get her for free!!!!

missjones2007 Posted:

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my cousin is my weding planner and she is FREE!

Brendanzgirl Posted:

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Not me... I don't think I'd be able to rationalize it to the FH

egem523 Posted:

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I hired a DOC for the day. The best decision I have made. I already feel a sense of relief.

CandB4604 Posted:

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See - A Day of Coordinator could be really nice.. I am planning the whole thing myself but down the line..when all the little details are set, I might want one!

shell1879 Posted:

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i may end up hiring a DOC still not sure on that though

I am THE PLANNER for my friend in CA lol after she saw my ideas she asked me if I would do her wedding
Of coarse I said YES

Only thing with that is knowing vendors in CA is not so easy but things need to happen quickly it's going to be a last min wedding as soon as her FH gets home from Iraq it's a go

kristentinnelly Posted:

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Posted by egem523

I hired a DOC for the day. The best decision I have made. I already feel a sense of relief.



I was debating about hiring a DOC too. Who did you use? How much do they normally run?
ladybengal Posted:

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I have a full service wedding planner..it is excellent!!!!

Summertimegal424 Posted:

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not me...its Me, FH and my parents doing the planning
Nicoleddie10 Posted:

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I hired Exquisite Affairs Productions as my planner and DOC.

I wanted to ensure that I left 'no stone unturned' and that I was getting the best deals for what I wanted.

You truly don't realize how much you need a planner until you have them!

Christine from EAP has already helped me plan my entire engagement party - - everything from matching placecards, menus, and table numbers to getting me a better price for my flowers and DJ - she has been amazing!

Although we've just started with the wedding planning stuff, she's already negotiated a better price on my limos because of her connections in the industry.

Check out their website: www.EAPWeddings.com
for pricing and other info

I can honestly say that I feel comfortable that I will not be missing out on any hot trend or overlook any aspect of planning because I have a planner.

I hope that helps you ladies!
dani1128 Posted:

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im going ot use a DOC just to take the stress off my mom and family!

alisha2010 Posted:

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DOES ANYONE KNOW THE ESTIMATED COST OF A DOC? TIA

egem523 Posted:

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Posted by alisha2010

DOES ANYONE KNOW THE ESTIMATED COST OF A DOC? TIA



I think anywhere between $500-1000 is average for a DOC.
meli722 Posted:

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if i do hire anyone, itll be a DOC...but it will take a lot of convincing FH into why the hell i need one
i might not though, if i see $$$ is getting tight towards the end, then it is something i can do without....if problems do arise the day of i will make my mother to go to person and tell her take care of it she wont like that one!
Colby212 Posted:

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HOw much does a full service planner run about?

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