One of mine just dropped out citing money reasons.
kris_gets_hitched
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I'm sorry Financial reasons IMO is acceptable. At least she gave you a lot of notice (I see you're getting married next October...)
Im_My_Own_Princess
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um.. I had one, but I knew she was going to. She lives in another state and just had a baby. a mutual friend of ours had been helping me a bunch.. so I was telling friend A that I want to include friend B and A said she'll step out and give B her place, she's having money issues as well... so it wasn't that big of a deal... but I have a feeling my MOH will be dropping out soon... where I plan on bumping friend B upto MOH because she's done the most for me and we've been friends for over 10 years. and then I'll add friend C to the BP cause I want to add her as well.. but then there's FSIL who I haven't asked yet, just assumed.. well she's preggers now and I think she might decline when I ask.. so at that point I'll be recruiting!
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I just had my last girl, the one whom i just asked this summer because we became pretty close since i have moved here to Texas. Well she had an OOOOOOPS and is now Preggers. And due two weeks before the wedding.
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I had one drop out. She still hasnt officially told me that she has or what her reason is, I have heard from MOH and her estranged husband that she is out, but she deleted her email and facebook and wont return my calls or text messages
MrsHazel2B
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FH kicked out his two nieces b/c they gave me some drama about our relationship and their thoughts on how it should be. Does that count? My MBs are cousins and sisters, they can't drop out!
MarjorieFrank
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I am kicking one out because I saw her true colors.
Smilenr0
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I had 2 bridesmaid and 2 jr bridesmaid
then 1 usher and 1 jr..........
All on his side.. they claim its b/c of money.....
Im pretty upset and annoyed.... bc my FH bends backwards for everyone in his family!
Nichole2010
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I kicked my MOH out bc she was just being a suckyyy person
I kicked a BM out bc something happened that caused us not to be friends anymore
xela
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I wanted sooo desperately to drop outta my friends wedding last May...I live out of state, I was 8 mos prego and it was costing me alot to be in her wedding. I stuck it out but I would understand for any one of those reasons.
daniellek730
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I had my own sister, who was my MOH, dropped out.
She's my estranged sister and didn't feel it would be right or comfortable being part of my wedding party.
soonT0beMrsD
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me, we got into a tiff and she just cant get over it, even after we have been friends for over 20 years
Christine N Ralph
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I had 1 bm drop out...she and I had an argument and she didnt want to be part of the wedding...and my MOH dropped out...she was a sucky friend...
JAAMS
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One of my BMs dropped out due to med school, and my brother & his wife are being kicked out b/c they did some really awful things to us lately
nicole elizabeth
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One of my bridesmaids dropped out because she found out she was pregnant and was due six weeks before the wedding. She is also from out-of-state, so she thought it would be too much for her. I decided not to ask another friend to be a bridesmaid, so now we just have an uneven wedding party!
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i had a groomsman drop out on me... one of my best friends since i was like 14... because he said that he was uncomfortable because he had never been to a wedding before and didn't even know what to do... either way, i didn't give him a problem about it and i said that i'd be happy as long as he was there, but i know it's because of his clingy girlfriend..
MrsH37
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I didn't have anyone drop out but I kind of wish one of them would based on recent events.