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How many of you live with your FH?

Eckymecky Posted:

How many of you live with your FH?

oh so my answer is yes and love it! we've lived together for a little over a year now and waited to move in after a year of dating.

Im a Pepper Posted:

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i live with FH and couldn't picture life any other way now!! he's great to live with and i have so much with him around!

KristiAnn923 Posted:

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We moved in together in July and got engaged in September. We have been living together for 7 months. It is not always easy but it was a great way for us to learn eachothers quirks, both good and bad. I used to feel differently about living together before marriage but I'd rather know what it's like then walk into this after the wedding not knowing what I got myself into. It is definately not easy merging stuff and personal space.

coley1027 Posted:

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fh and i dont live together yet, we both live with our parents. but we might as well live together, he sleeps over every night and the only time were apart is if one of us is at school or work. we plan on moving in together right before our wedding day to get settled in.

Cacarina Posted:

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We've lived together for the past 2 years. I love it. FH is the best person to live with. He cooks and cleans, and does everything for me. Its fun too, we are like best friends!

Eckymecky Posted:

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my MOH is totally against living with your FH because she was engaged once (and this just shows you how her opinions are quirky) and they didn't really live together but she 'practically' lived with him and he ended up calling off the wedding for some reason or another.

my FH thinks it's the best thing we ever did. i don't think i could ever not know what i was getting myself into...b/c fh sure has a lot of quirks but i have realized (or have learned ;) ) that i can deal with them.

and it's great because he loves to do the dishes and i HATE dishes...so i cook and do laundry and he pretty much does the rest i feel so lucky!! p.s. he's also on kitty litter duty!!
Future Mulligan Posted:

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Posted by Cacarina

We've lived together for the past 2 years. I love it. FH is the best person to live with. He cooks and cleans, and does everything for me. Its fun too, we are like best friends!



same here......i couldnt imagine it any other way!
Future Mulligan Posted:

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Posted by Eckymecky

my MOH is totally against living with your FH because she was engaged once (and this just shows you how her opinions are quirky) and they didn't really live together but she 'practically' lived with him and he ended up calling off the wedding for some reason or another.

my FH thinks it's the best thing we ever did. i don't think i could ever not know what i was getting myself into...b/c fh sure has a lot of quirks but i have realized (or have learned ;) ) that i can deal with them.

and it's great because he loves to do the dishes and i HATE dishes...so i cook and do laundry and he pretty much does the rest i feel so lucky!! p.s. he's also on kitty litter duty!!



my FH says that after living with me he knew for sure that he wanted me to be his wife.....he doesnt know how people can be so sure when they dont have that experience.....i think its a good idea to live together first - that way you really know for sure what you are getting yourself into
flairforfashion Posted:

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I don't live with FH- we both live with our parents. I sleep over his house on the weekends and we see eachother everyday. It's pretty much like we live together.

However, I wanted to move in once we are married. I want to have something to look forward to and have a little bit of tradition. Plus, my family is not from America and they have an old school feel on this subject.
kimiequa Posted:

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we moved in together in september and got engaged december. i love it, but we both actually had originally wanted to wait until we got married, but it doesn't work living away from our families and friends in SC! i'm happy with our decision, and can't imagine life with out waking up with him every morning!

CollBride09 Posted:

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We got engaged in October and moved in together in December. It is a little rough getting used to compromising on some things but all in all there is nothing better than falling asleep with the love of your life and waking up with them the next morning!

JackieV Posted:

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We are buying a house over the summer so thats when we are going to move in together. I cant wait!!!! I wish it was happening now. I know its not always going to be easy but i cant wait to see him everyday. We have really off schudules so its hard for us to get together during the week, So once we live together it will be so much easier to see each other. How many days till the summer???
spanishitalian Posted:

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HE MOVED IN WITH ME LAST SUMMER AND WE WEREDATING 2 YEARS BY THEN I LOVE IT

cammolax23 Posted:

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we lived together for a year and a half and then we had to move out of our apt, so I moved out, and he bought his grandmothers house, as soon as the finish dormering out the top level i am movin back in and just cant wait!!!

ilonka020 Posted:

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not yet, but hopefully after i graduate

lizzzie35 Posted:

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We've been living together since Sept. 2006 and we got engaged December 2007. I got the choice to either get an apt. first or to get engaged first and I chose the apt. At the time I was living with my dad in Queens who was about to get married and I was working on the Nassau/Suffolk border so the commute was a biatch. I think I made the right decision!

aliska21 Posted:

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yes and love it!!!! cannot live w/out him now!!! Im so glad that we did it...

lookitscassie Posted:

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fh and i were together for 4 months when we moved in together lol. i love it i think it helped us become closer and prepared us to get married b/c we know eachothers little quirks and whatnot

TnJ041809 Posted:

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I love living with FH and i'm happy we didn't wait till we were married. It was such a big transition so i'm glad we have it all ironed out now and we know each other so much better then we though we already did.

bluegreen08 Posted:

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I live with my FH and love it!!! We moved in together a few weeks after getting engaged, but had been planning it for about 6 months.

FH was living in university-owned apts while finishing his masters, and I was living in a real apartment with a roommate while going to law school. He graduated in May 08 so he couldn't live in university housing anymore, his roommate was moving to Houston, my roommate was moving to Florida and both leases ended the same day.

It just made sense for us to move in together, since we practically lived together at that point anyway. (We were together just under 5 years at that point). I loooooooooooooove it!

I'm glad we didn't rush into moving in together because it can get really messy if things go south (FH's brother and his gf just ended a 2 year relationship -- they were living together and had been since a few months in -- it was MESSY!!!)

I would have rather waited longer to get engaged than waited longer to move in together

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