How many of you think you will? Or you already have?

Original post by Ronnie&Theresa

Oct 29, 2003 09:36 AM

Cried when walking down the isle? and Reciting your vows?

I think bc Ronnie and I are writing our vows I will be a bawling mess.. and It takes ALOT for me to cry!

oneday Posted: Oct 29, 2003 10:26 AM

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Posted by kelly6273

That was me! I thought I would be a mess at my own wedding. I bawl at everyone elses wedding. But surprisingly, for my own, I didn't cry at all. I am also normally a very nervous person, but during the days leading up to my wedding and on my actual wedding day, I was cool as a cucumber.

That is so funny - me too! I was sure both DH and I would be crying, but we really didn't. I am usually the person who cries at EVERYTHING - DH makes fun of me because I get teary looking for greeting cards!
The only time I think I almost really cried was when I danced with my Dad - I would have any way, but I think a lot had to do with thinking of my mom not being there. During the ceremony, I got a little teary eyed, but I had been sure I wouldn't even be able to say my vows, yet somehow I was so composed. I think all my friends were very surprised.

kel2004 Posted: Oct 29, 2003 10:27 AM

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I cry at everything and I know I will cry when we say our vows. I'm really hoping that I will not be bawling as I walk down the aisle. But I know I will.

itsbouttime Posted: Oct 29, 2003 10:27 AM

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I think i will defin cry. We were in church sunday for our finishing mass of pre caina and being up there so close to the alter I almost lost it. Got real nervous.

franksbride Posted: Oct 29, 2003 10:28 AM

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I cry at everything, so I'm pretty certain that I'm going to cry either at the ceremony or when I dance with my mom.

sammi102 Posted: Oct 29, 2003 10:31 AM

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I definitely think I'm going to cry. I was hysterical when he proposed to me!!! I got mascara all over his face:)

2003fallwedding Posted: Oct 29, 2003 10:32 AM

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I can almost guarantee I will be crying. My mom and step dad are going to be crying (she cried when we went to hear sample ceremony music at the church and my step dad got misty eyed thinking that this past Sunday was my last family breakfast at home before I get married). I have been so emotional the last few months I am afraid I will look horrible in my pictures.

shelzyp Posted: Oct 29, 2003 10:53 AM

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I am the biggest cryer there is, I cry over everthing, and not just a bit, but to the point where I can not breathe, and can't get the words out. Then I cry because I am amess, and can't get control. At the wedding though, I was so happy that I just got a bit chocked up, and it was over the Memory candle since my grandfather dies 2 weeks before the wedding. I was never so happy, and eveythign came to gether greatly that I ahd no reason to cry, I couldn't keep but grinning from ear to ear.

My friends were so surprised that I as as calm as I was.

deedee Posted: Oct 29, 2003 11:05 AM

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When I'm nervous I laugh. I pray I don't laugh. When I go on roller coasters I am hysterical and everyone else is screaming. Who knows I probably will be a crying mess. I just can't wait to see my FI waiting at the end of that isle for me.

btrflygrl Posted: Oct 29, 2003 11:18 AM

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I know I'll be crying...i tear up just thinking about it...and FH definitely will be bawling and so will half his groomsmen.....they are all very emotional!

Kim921 Posted: Oct 29, 2003 11:20 AM

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I will probably cry walking down the isle to him. He will prob have tears in his eyes, but won't let them fall out because he knows I would start bawling..lol

I will prob cry at our first dance too as well as when I dance with my daddy.

Misty Posted: Oct 29, 2003 11:27 AM

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I didn't cry actually walking down the aisle...I smiled ear to ear from nerves! But, I did choke up when my dad put my veil over my face, and we both choked up during the Ave Maria, and Grow Old Along With Me. We didn't know the second song would be performed, and we both kinda lost it.

Also, T.....you know how Fr. B. speaks. We both couldn't handle him! It was so beautiful!

Anniegrl Posted: Oct 29, 2003 11:32 AM

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One of my biggest fears is that I'll start bawling during the vows and I won't be able to speak. I get choked up even THINKING about saying my vows! And I definately do not want to be caught on film with my face all contorted (it's hard to look pretty when you're bawling!)

Ericia Posted: Oct 29, 2003 12:47 PM

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I'm a sap, so I know I will cry; And if if Bryan (my FH) gets emotional, forgetaboutit! I'm doomed.

cluelessbride Posted: Oct 29, 2003 01:02 PM

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I will totally cry.

Bring on the waterproof mascara!

jenny2penny Posted: Oct 29, 2003 01:23 PM

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I am not a big crier either, but I have a feeling something will make me cry, whether it's walking down, vows, first dance, something....

Kelly9904 Posted: Oct 29, 2003 01:24 PM

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I actually dont think I will. Which is totally out of character for me, I cry so easily. But the reason I dont think I will is I didnt cry when he proposed! I always thought I would but at that moment I was so utterly excited I couldnt do anything but smile and hug him! I think thats how I will be on our wedding day! I think I may tear up dancing with Dad but I dont think I will cry going down the asile or reciting our vows!!!

MarcellaBella Posted: Oct 29, 2003 02:08 PM

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Well, T, you were there for me.. As soon as I heard Kevin (bagpiper) begin to play, while dad and I were outside, I began to lose it.. Then when I saw all the people with smiles and then saw Todd cry, I TOTALLY lost it..

I lost it even before we got to the church.. Everytime I looked at my dad, I would lose it.. so some of your girls made my dad sit on the other side of the limo lol

And when we were doing our vows, which I put together myself.. I stuttered..
lol

alina Posted: Oct 29, 2003 03:34 PM

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I didn't cry and had a smile on my face most of the time. And I said 'I do' three times, because I couldn't wait for the rabbi to finish his blessings!!!

danigirl0 Posted: Oct 29, 2003 03:39 PM

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when am i NOT going to cry?!!!!! i am going to try get it all out at the rehearsal dinner the week before. i want to just smile ear to ear the day of..no teary mess!