How many of your Nos sent a gift?

Original post by Mici n KC

Sep 08, 2008 12:59 AM

I know that everyone has their own opinion on whether to send a gift or not if you're attending and I don't care about that. I want to know how many of you received gifts from those that didn't attend your wedding. We've had 4 official NOs so far and nothing with them (they are all from FH's family and his mom is ticked because she has given a gift to all of them...not to say we won't get something) but just curious the number of people that sent gifts that didn't attend.

GtBride Posted: Sep 08, 2008 04:13 PM

Re: How many of your Nos sent a gift?

We had a few nos and they didn't send $hit!

Wifeynella Posted: Sep 08, 2008 04:27 PM

Re: How many of your Nos sent a gift?

so far - none. lol

Snick n Nick Posted: Sep 08, 2008 04:34 PM

Re: How many of your Nos sent a gift?

5 of our No's sent gifts....13 did not (by invite, so some of those were a single person, some a couple, some a family). Some sent checks, some sent gifts out of the 5. Only one actually sent a check with the response card. The others sent a card with a check later, or sent a gift with a card later.

ETA: Most of the ones who did were my dad's older relatives (his aunts/uncles/cousins)...whole family is Italian and VERY traditional. Most of the ones who didn't were DH's cousins who are in their 20's, our friend who couldn't come, and some of my dad's cousins who are not as close....