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how much do i give as a gift.....

BriansWifey Posted:

how much do i give as a gift.....

sooo i was invited to a christening but i cant go... they (a couple) gave us $350 for the wedding.. what do i give them for their son's christening? $200? or give em the $350 like they did for our wedding...?

what do u ladies think?
StaceyWill Posted:

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I think $200 is perfect

flibbertigibbet Posted:

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i'm ignorant maybe. but...

$200!?

and she isn't going?

*** does a kid need $200 for? the parents will pocket it.

Marianne13 Posted:

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Posted by weddingbees

i'm ignorant maybe. but...

$200!?

and she isn't going?

*** does a kid need $200 for? the parents will pocket it.




I agree... I mean, they came to your wedding and it was a wedding.

You aren't going to this event (therefore they aren't paying for your food/alcohol) and it's a Christening.

I would give $100.
AngnShaun Posted:

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I think $200 is a lot if you're not going... I also wouldnt compare the wedding gift to the christening gift... I would only do $100-$150

little j Posted:

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i think this is a lot too. i think it depends how well you know the kid also. its its not like a neice/nephew cousin....i would probably do $100 (especially since you arent going) or you can send a $200 savings bond (which only costs $100 now)

regy_k Posted:

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I also think 200 is perfect even 150 wont be too shabby

BriansWifey Posted:

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Posted by weddingbees

i'm ignorant maybe. but...

$200!?

and she isn't going?

*** does a kid need $200 for? the parents will pocket it.




well they gace $350 for the two of them for the wedding, and id rather give too much than not enough, plus i loooooooove these people....

grkbarbie Posted:

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what is your relationship with them? relatives? friend? do you like them?

200$ is generous if youre not going
grkbarbie Posted:

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oh u love them???

250.$

BriansWifey Posted:

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Posted by grkbarbie

what is your relationship with them? relatives? friend? do you like them?

200$ is generous if youre not going



we're friends. i see em like 5 days a week and love em to death and the baby
grkbarbie Posted:

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250!


and im sure you buy the kid stuff all the time??
lbkate Posted:

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That is alot of money...and it shouldnt compare to what they spent for a wedding gift. I would also say get a savings bond so when the kid is 18, the amount will double
flibbertigibbet Posted:

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i feel like $100 is even a lot IF YOU AREN'T GOING.

get the kids a $100 savings bond. cost you $50 and you know the parents can't use it.
grkbarbie Posted:

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its funny..cuz while i was booking vendors, i asked my mom to give me my baptism money

she goes 'yea right. u think i have it?'

lmaoo



SoontobeMrs.Brown Posted:

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Posted by weddingbees

i feel like $100 is even a lot IF YOU AREN'T GOING.

get the kids a $100 savings bond. cost you $50 and you know the parents can't use it.




ITA
BriansWifey Posted:

Re: how much do i give as a gift.....


Posted by grkbarbie

its funny..cuz while i was booking vendors, i asked my mom to give me my baptism money

she goes 'yea right. u think i have it?'

lmaoo






lmfaoooo!
well either way... i gotta give em something. its up to them what they do with it
GiannisWifey Posted:

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I would give a bond or check for $200

Lovebug2016 Posted:

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Posted by SoontobeMrs.Brown


Posted by weddingbees

i feel like $100 is even a lot IF YOU AREN'T GOING.

get the kids a $100 savings bond. cost you $50 and you know the parents can't use it.




ITA



ita, but check with the bank, they have different amts..if you dont feel $100 is enough.
Windy Posted:

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200 is plenty especially if you not going

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