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How much do you usually spend on a shower gift....

Jenn04 Posted:

How much do you usually spend on a shower gift....

for a very close friend.....you are not in the bridal party though.

I think I usually spend about $75ish
Maria31 Posted:

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I'd spend $100ish

Espo22 Posted:

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$150-200 it depends. I have a shower coming up soon but cant attend bc ill be away, but she came to my shower and will give about the same so a little over $100

if its a very good friend and depends how good obviously then 200-300
wifetobe Posted:

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Posted by Maria31

I'd spend $100ish



agreed
Jenn04 Posted:

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Ok that is what I thought the norm is....anyway I can see how much people spent on me on my honeymoon registry and most people are getting $50 gifts. (It also says their name!) I am definitely grateful for these but am just alittle shocked I guess. I am just bratty when it comes to my presents! LOL!!!!!

Kristina2009 Posted:

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If it's one of my closest friends - about $150-200. Although, on ocassion, I have spent much much more on people who have just always been super generous to me.

Other friends - about $100.

hannahshim Posted:

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very close then i would spend like 150
Jenn04 Posted:

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OK either they are like way cheap or they are going to also chip in on something else!

Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by Jenn04

OK either they are like way cheap or they are going to also chip in on something else!



you never know...Some would rather give a gift than give you cash so maybe thats why with the HM registry they only gave $50 but maybe they are buying you something with it
dannisayz Posted:

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$100-200.

jessnstu08 Posted:

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NOW i would give between 75- 100, a few years ago i was SO poor that i couldnt give much , i think i gave a good friend a 30 gift , but if i could have given more i would have
Jenn04 Posted:

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Oh well I am not one for tit-for-tat and wont keep tabs but was just curious what others usually spend! (Also had to make sure I was in the correct range!)

Future Mulligan Posted:

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they might be giving you a bigger wedding gift and thats why less on the shower....

id probably spend 50-150 on a shower gift depending on who the couple is
bluekat16 Posted:

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I spend anywhere between $50-$200...it depends n who it is...for a casual friend $50...for a close friend depening on what they need closer to $200.

KK Holiday Posted:

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i give whatever i can afford at the moment. when my brother got married I gave my SIL small gifts because i was still in college.

now that im working and my MOH is getting married i'll prob spend a few hundred.

i feel bad because looking back i would like to give my brother and his wife more
Bride908 Posted:

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I spend $75-$100 for friends that I am not in the bridal party.

Close friends and family 150-200 and over
cmjd Posted:

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This is a really good question. I always thought for a friend (not extremely close) but i see them all the time that $75-$100 is good. But ,when it came to my shower i got gifts from like $40-$50 so i started to think that maybe that was the norm??

wundmoretime Posted:

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People really spend that much on shower gifts??? wow. More sticker shock for me. I must be real cheap then. I went to FH's cousin's shower last weekend and the 4 of us gave $35 each. Immediate family is different. I was thinking about $50 on average for friends and non-immediate family members.

Wifeynella Posted:

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it depends on my relationship with the person, usually 150-200. if im in the bridal party 250-300

DiamondPipa Posted:

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it really depends. I spend $100 for friends i'm okay with, $150-$200 for close friends, and $400-$500 for family. That is also the amount people spent at my shower......with the exception of a few people who i was extremely shockeddd about (3 people gave $40 each, meanwhile my mom paid $45 per plate, anddd my favor was Kosta Boda votive)...they made out well!

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