'how much do you weight?'

lookitscassie Posted: Feb 27, 2008 08:45 PM

'how much do you weight?'

SOooo... FH is very sick with the stomach flu. he's lost 9 lbs in 48 hours. we discussed his weight loss and how he gained 10 lbs since we moved in last Feb. I went 'wow you gained 10 lbs.. i gained 20' and now hes questioning how much i weight and i refuse to answer. and he doesnt understand why.

so he goes 'im going on LIW and posting that this is a conspiracy theory'

because ' its another case of battle of the sexes'

Mrs B to Be Posted: Feb 27, 2008 08:56 PM

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dont men know that its all about the tone you use when you ask women things!?!?!?! my FH doesnt get this either, I flip out over silly little things b/c he said it in the wrong way....ugh

as for his question tell him to take his head out of his ***, what does your weight matter....small medium or large your gonna be his wife......i'm no advocate for being overweight due to health reasons but if your healthy your size shouldnt be seen as any sort of question

AugustBridein09 Posted: Feb 27, 2008 08:59 PM

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I'm don't have a problem with the whole 'weight, age, bra size, anything' questions.....esp w/ FH.

But if you do thats okay too...tell him to mind his business

edited b/c i realized my sentence wasn't grammatically correct.

lookitscassie Posted: Feb 27, 2008 09:11 PM

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i laughed in his face and walked away and thats when he started the whole conspiracy thing lol

AugustBridein09 Posted: Feb 27, 2008 09:12 PM

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Posted by lookitscassie

i laughed in his face and walked away and thats when he started the whole conspiracy thing lol

MEN!

lookitscassie Posted: Feb 27, 2008 09:13 PM

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Posted by UKsunshine

Posted by lookitscassie

i laughed in his face and walked away and thats when he started the whole conspiracy thing lol

MEN!

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now hes mad because there isnt 100 views on this topic LOL

mcbride62009 Posted: Feb 27, 2008 09:16 PM

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Well, I dont mind telling my FH.

lookitscassie Posted: Feb 27, 2008 09:20 PM

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if i was 30lbs lighter i wouldnt either haha

AugustBridein09 Posted: Feb 27, 2008 09:26 PM

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Posted by lookitscassie

Posted by UKsunshine

Posted by lookitscassie

i laughed in his face and walked away and thats when he started the whole conspiracy thing lol

MEN!
.

now hes mad because there isnt 100 views on this topic LOL

AugustBridein09 Posted: Feb 27, 2008 09:29 PM

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Posted by lookitscassie

if i was 30lbs lighter i wouldnt either haha

Give him a blank piece of paper and a pencil and tell him
'you weight over 95 lbs = that equals Y but less than 500lbs = thats defined by Z and he needs to find 'x''

hahaha can you tell i've been helping FH w/ his calculus/chemistry homework!!!!

Vineyard72509 Posted: Feb 27, 2008 09:29 PM

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we both gained 30 lbs since we started dating... I say its because he loves me lol... we share that stuff though- he's probably just picking on you- don't you hate how quickly they lose weight though? It would take me a month to lose what he looses in a week

FutureMrsLehmann Posted: Feb 27, 2008 09:30 PM

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i've never cared that FH knows how much I weigh, i know how much he weighs. but we don't weigh ourselves on a regular basis, because i really believe that makes you neurotic about weight!

/shrug

longislandlibrarian Posted: Feb 27, 2008 10:27 PM

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We don't weigh ourselves regularly either because of the fact that I had an eating disorder in college but we both gained probably about 15 lbs from being together! We want to start taking it off slowly before the wedding but we aren't obsessing over it......

And FH knows not to ask what I weigh cause ill NEVER TELL

flairforfashion Posted: Feb 27, 2008 11:28 PM

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I am open about my weight and so is FH. We don't really make a big deal about it.

kimiequa Posted: Feb 27, 2008 11:30 PM

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Posted by lookitscassie

SOooo... FH is very sick with the stomach flu. he's lost 9 lbs in 48 hours. we discussed his weight loss and how he gained 10 lbs since we moved in last Feb. I went 'wow you gained 10 lbs.. i gained 20' and now hes questioning how much i weight and i refuse to answer. and he doesnt understand why.

so he goes 'im going on LIW and posting that this is a conspiracy theory'

because ' its another case of battle of the sexes'

can he come over here and cough on me?! hahaha jk

CNC4eva3402 Posted: Feb 28, 2008 02:38 AM

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FH knows how much I weight and everything else there is to know about me..but I am so open with him! lolz...

We've both gained weight since we started dating.. but we've both gone up and down over the past 6yrs...over the past year we've both gained..hes happy he gained weight because he always thought he was too skinny (damn MEN!!!!!!!!!!) and I gained weight and I HATEEEEEEEEEE it, but FH swears he doesn't see it..I feel like smacking him when he denies it..lolz

mrsdraskin2009 Posted: Feb 28, 2008 06:27 AM

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i don't think fh cares how much i weigh, he just wants me to be healthy... when i met him 5 years ago, i weighed a good 15 lbs less than now, but i was working about 60 hours a week at a job where i was on my feet all day long and i ate like one slice of pizza a day and that was it...so as soon as i met him and quit that job, i like instantly gained weight and i've been trying to lose it ever since

it really sukks how our bodies and metabolisms change as we get older!

MrsDtoBe09 Posted: Feb 28, 2008 07:27 AM

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OMG - First off, I thought this was an actual post asking how much all of us weigh! I was thinking, 'Is she CRAZY????' FH knows how much I weigh - it's no secret to him.

Dr Meg Posted: Feb 28, 2008 08:52 AM

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I've gained 40 lbs since I met FH and he has also gained some weight, I don't know how much I just know he went from a 29' waist to a 32-34' waist. He knows how much I weigh and whenever I say 'I need to lose weight' he tells me I'm beautiful the way I am. Sweet I know, but not helpful when I weigh the most i ever have. We just joined a gym though and are on a mission to loose all the extra weight before the wedding.