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'how much do you weight?'

bluegreen08 Posted:

Re: 'how much do you weight?'

My health has fluctuated since I met FH -- I have Crohns disease and had some ups and downs depending on how my health has been.

I think we've each gained a little in the past year --- FH played varsity bball all through HS and college and after graduation he switched to golf. So... he has much less exercise than he is used to.

I wasn't really that active since HS, but at least in college I had to walk everywhere. Now I have a car and spend a lot of time in bed with my books/laptop. Also, my summer job wined/dined us (I worked for a big law firm) and I gained 10 lbs from eating out 10-15x a week. I've lost about 5 of it.

FH never knew exactly what I weighed because it didn't really matter, but he knows now because we've been making an effort to eat healthy, work out, and its just one way to track our progress.

A lot of guys are really bad at guessing what girls weigh though since we carry weight differently.
PoppedInASnap Posted:

Re: 'how much do you weight?'

im fine with fh knowing how much i weight. He picked me up once and said 'you def weight under 130' and i was happy to hear that cause even though i was under 120 i still feel like i weigh a million lbs!

PoppedInASnap Posted:

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you know, we've lost since we first started dating...

everyone says its because were so active... fine with me!
Future Mulligan Posted:

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doesnt bother me that FH knows my weight - we both know eachothers weight and we discuss it when we talk about dieting or exercise.....FH did tell me that he had an ex who was heavier than him (he lost a ton of weight while they were together) and he used to feel bad b/c he weighed less than her so he would lie about his weight to her b/c he didnt want to make her feel bad so i guess for some the actual # on the scale can be an issue....but with us its not - we are both comfortable with our bodies - we see eachother naked all the time so i dont see a problem knowing what the # on the scale says - if he likes what he sees than it shouldnt matter what the scale says i think our FHs love us all no matter what our shape, size, weight is

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