How Much Time Spent Together?

Original post by michesq

Apr 09, 2008 10:00 PM

How much time do you and FH spend together? A lot, some, not enough?

We spend a tremendous amount of time together an wknds and of course weeknights when I am home but we still are ok with a bit of time for each of us. I guess he gets his when I work late and I have my tennis game which I play with FH but many times with others- great stress reliever.

xXxNovember08xXx Posted: Apr 10, 2008 12:18 AM

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about 24 hrs a week. i see him sat afternoons and go home sun night

mdawg Posted: Apr 10, 2008 12:20 AM

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we;re not even engaged and we spend 5-6 nights a week together.

lolol

p.s. we had the 'future' talk today.

frenchy702 Posted: Apr 10, 2008 02:03 AM

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We spend a decent amount of time together. We live together so that makes it a lot easier. He works crazy hours (11:30pm-8:00am). I haven't been working so we spend a lot more time together. But when I do work, we see each other like 3 hours a day when he works. When he is off and I am off, we'll spend all day together

GiantsBride Posted: Apr 10, 2008 05:51 AM

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We only get to see one another two weekends out of each month... and whatever holidays we get as teachers --- and then of course we are practically attached at the hip all summer!!!!! Yea for summer!

MrsDrinkh20 Posted: Apr 10, 2008 06:44 AM

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we live together so we see each other everyday. We also work in the same school district so we just finished running an after school club together. lol

The past few weeks have been crazy with work so we really only see each other as we are going to sleep! Soon that will end though!

michesq Posted: Apr 10, 2008 06:48 AM

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Posted by MrsDrinkh20

we live together so we see each other everyday. We also work in the same school district so we just finished running an after school club together. lol

The past few weeks have been crazy with work so we really only see each other as we are going to sleep! Soon that will end though!

feel the same way even though we live together lately- it's like Hi in morning then good night at bedtime

mrsdraskin2009 Posted: Apr 10, 2008 07:54 AM

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Well, we live together....But I work nights, so I feel like I don't 'see' him as much at night as I would like. If we didn't live together, it'd be different. We have the perfect balance that we never really get on each others nerves from being together too much.

JC297 Posted: Apr 10, 2008 07:57 AM

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Posted by MrsBtobe2009

We live together so generally we spend a lot of tiem together, but I feel like we are always sitting at home on the computer. lol We never actually go out and do anything.

Us too!!!! We live together, never go out and are always home either in front of the TV or the computer. FH and I really need to spend less time together. We live in his parents house and we basically have a bedroom, a little kitchen area and a bathroom. We can't seem to get away from each other. So a lot of times on the weekends, I spend the day at my parents house, in a room alone just so I can have personal space.

Dreemer107 Posted: Apr 10, 2008 08:00 AM

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FH & I live 7 houses away from one another...so i see him every night and then i sleep at his house over the weekend...so yea, i always see him...and the very few times i dont get to see him(if he actually has to go upstate for classes), it feels sooo weird!!

purplerain Posted: Apr 10, 2008 08:00 AM

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We live together so see each other every day except when i'm on nightshift like at the moment
If i'm not working at the weekends then we do something just the two of us, watching a film, going for a meal etc.

curlyq4458 Posted: Apr 10, 2008 08:20 AM

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We spend ALOT of time together. We live together in NYC and our apt is very big...hahaha.

But htere are times I go home to LI and spend time with my fanily, so we have 'our' time to our selves, which I think is important.

stephlovesseyi Posted: Apr 10, 2008 09:07 AM

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Lately not enough time! We live together, but as a high school teacher and a dance teacher, this is my busy season. Have to prepare srs. grades and projects before graduation, my 10th graders have state assessment comming up in 2 weeks. Dance students have a competition this weekend, I was out of town last weekend to judge a competition and recital is comming up in june!!!

I get home so tired that all I do is eat dinner and do to bed. I feel so guilty that me and FH haven't been able to really spend time together, let alone eat dinner together. He understands and is so supportive. I love him so much for that, but still I feel so guilty. Next school year Im cutting back alot because Im starting to resent my commitments because its keeping me away from him.

crazeee18 Posted: Apr 10, 2008 09:08 AM

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theres usually not a day that goes by that we dont see each other...maybe once a month we dont see each other...we dont live together but we r always at one anothers houses ...i love it

baba022 Posted: Apr 10, 2008 09:14 AM

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It varies during the week depending on my schedule - I usually go to him since he owns his own house...but fri-sun I am there....

Jsquared279 Posted: Apr 10, 2008 09:24 AM

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TONS OF TIME TOGETHER! Basically every moment that we are not working or obligated to do something apart we are together!!

Cacarina Posted: Apr 10, 2008 09:32 AM

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We live together, so we spend a lot of time together. But mostly on weeknights we watch TV and do our own thing in separate rooms. FH comes into the bedroom at around 10pm to watch some of our shows together. On the weekends we spend a lot of time together too, but sometimes I'll go out with my friends alone and I always go to my best friends apt on Sundays, alone.

kabo0831 Posted: Apr 10, 2008 09:39 AM

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we are toghter all the time and i love it

Future Mulligan Posted: Apr 10, 2008 09:43 AM

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we see eachother everyday because we live together - so we do end up spending a lot of time together

MrsCtobe Posted: Apr 10, 2008 10:36 AM

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I basically see him every night and all day and night on weekends lol. I also talk to him like 20 times a day. Oh Lord that sounds horrible~ Well....we do take some days off during the week to socialize with other people as well. I can't help it...i just like him too much lol