my fh and i have been together for 8 yrs and we had a talk today about how our sex life has not been the greatest lately..i guess with school and work and planning ive just been tired lately lol and we are going to work on it --if u know what i mean--lol--how often are u and ur fh intimate?
Jesses Girl
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honestly...once a week IF we see eachother. It used ot be different when we worked together and had normal hours. but he works 2 jobs and i work a job 25 hrs a week and go to school full time...it is a lot for both of us. we do not discuss how crappy the sex life is...we just make sure we have an amazing time WHEN we can.
so dont worry...sometimes it isnt even 1 time a week... :sigh: the only thing i can say is if and when you get a moment take advantage any way possible.
kimnsteve
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we are the same! once a week if we are lucky!
karen6474
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trust me you are not alone- my schedule & FH's are so different- we really dont get to see much of each other. I would probably say 2x if i'm lucky but like Diane said about her & FH when we actually get to do it- its actually really amazing.
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I'm a once-a-weeker myself.... if we're lucky! We both have such long days and we're so tired by the end of the day that we pretty much just fall into bed and pass out. Him passing out with his hand on my boob is a lot of action for a week-night!
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Posted by KimAMalone
I'm a once-a-weeker myself.... if we're lucky! We both have such long days and we're so tired by the end of the day that we pretty much just fall into bed and pass out. Him passing out with his hand on my boob is a lot of action for a week-night!
i love this site - seriously i love feeling like i am NOT a freak
because of our work schedules and we both live at home 1-2x a week!!!
it STINKS!
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Him passing out with his hand on my boob is a lot of action for a week-night!
LOL that's too funny!
AMGBride2008
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Him passing out with his hand on my boob is a lot of action for a week-night!
LOL that's too funny!
It's a sad truth. We have our moments but we like to sleep a lot too. We laugh at how we were when we first started dating. Who were we?!
Jesses Girl
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Posted by dancinmyazoff
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Him passing out with his hand on my boob is a lot of action for a week-night!
LOL that's too funny!
It's a sad truth. We have our moments but we like to sleep a lot too. We laugh at how we were when we first started dating. Who were we?!
HAHAHA i know...we were like rabbits...now it is true we sometimes look at eachother with puppy dog eyes..and say..hun im exhausted...and then we will do it in the am. hahaha <3 us girls are all in the same boat...thank god
MaureenM618
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If it was up to me at least once a day But due to our work and school schedule we usually do the deed about 3-4 times a week and we've been together almost 4 years.
Jesses Girl
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u are lucky girl...we all want...we just cant get..u...3-4 times..thats awesome!! haha
LuvMyAlfonse
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You won't believe it - but we are being abstinent before our wedding. But we are going away in two weeks so we'll cheat a little then!!! YAY!!! Wooooooooo hoooooooooo! I'm gonna get me some!
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i was telling my fh that we should be abstinent before the wedding so our wedding night will be special so we said a month and hes like thats too long lol but im going to stick to it but thank god thats two yrs away lol
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We are planning on not having sex for about a month before the wedding. I think that is a really good idea. Did I see that on Friends or something?
We don't see eachother during the week. We live about 40 minutes from eachother and the commute is too much with work and school schedules. But I'm at his house from Friday night till Monday morning and we try to get all the sex in for the week in those few days, lol, so, its usually about 3-4 times on the weekend. We try to be jack rabbits
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I'm trying to convince FH that we should practice abstinence before the wedding so that it could be speacial. He said there's other way it could be special, we could try a different way.
We're lucky if we get some twice a week
ant n tilde
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FH shot down the abstinence idea REAL QUICK
I wasnt so sure i wanted to do it either so i let it go!
AMGBride2008
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Ehh, I'm not really into it... personally for us I don't see the point. Whether we go the no sex route or not, our wedding night will be special because we're married and a family.... IMO
MaureenM618
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I guess I am lucky..lol. and here I am thinking I don't get it enough. I do want to be abstinant before our wedding too but I don't think I'll be able to stick to that. I'm more the guy in our relationship. I'll be the one ripping his pants off while he struggles to keep to abstinance.
