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How often do you fight with FH?

eden Posted:

How often do you fight with FH?

Does anyone feel like they are fighting more with the FH lately? Is this a natural process of wedding planning?

jes81276 Posted:

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Little tiffs, probably one a month or every other month (with wedding planning a little more), major fights - probably once a year.

BellaEyes Posted:

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What about if it's been almost every day? That's not good..

AlmostMrsKelly Posted:

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i was thinking exactly what bella wrote!
plainview Posted:

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Just wedding stress
It will pass!
eden Posted:

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Everyday? You may wanna find out why you're getting more angry at him so often. Is it stress?

FH and I also have verbal scuffles every other day and sometimes it's more seroius than others. We are looking into counseling to iron out our differences though... :(
greenfreak Posted:

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I don't consider little arguments or annoyances fights. I think of fights as yelling, walking out of the house, etc. In which case it's only happened a few times in our years together.

Every relationship is different and the stress of the wedding could be a major factor! Nipping stress-induced arguments in the bud is hard when you've got a lot on your mind.

Maybe when you aren't fighting is a good time to talk about it. Explain the stress you're both under and make a pact to try and not take that out on each other?
metmymatch Posted:

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normally we fight maybe 1x/month. but this past week we had a few...all wedding related of course. i don't want to know what the next 4 months is going to be like!
mrsh2b Posted:

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tiffs and loud talking...hmmm...pretty much daily. Full out fights, maybe once a month..maybe.

JandJ1224 Posted:

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I consider fights, disagreements in which case there should be an option for more then 1X a week! Wedding planning has been very stressful, and little arugments between fh and I are common.

Chelle Posted:

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Only when he pi$$es me off.

ChiBaby Posted:

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Heated discussions maybe once a month if that after getting married...but leading up to our wedding maybe once a week... it was awful but I hear normal...phew...
N.Y.bride Posted:

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before the wedding - often, now that were married - very very rarely. We might have a disagreement once a month or two if that.

DandS Posted:

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We argue about once every other month. We really only fight (really fight) about once a year. We don't fight or argue that much, but we also only see each other once or twice a week (due to both of our work schedules), so we miss each other too much to fight. I am sure when we get married and move into our house together we are in for a rude awakening.

ant n tilde Posted:

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well we have a big fight like once a month but we have been arguing over wedding planning

the thing is that i dont mind that he isnt involved UNTIL i compare myself to other couples ( on here and my friends) and THEN i get mad that he isnt involved -which is stupid bc i am just comparing myself to other couples and that is never good

but definitely stress contributes to our fights - thats just natural!
iBCraZ131 Posted:

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We had only about 2-3 large fights with all the works in our 7 1/2 year relationship. He's the calm one and it takes a lot to get him really mad. As far as little arguments/disagreements, those are even rare. We talk about almost everything honestly, so it's hard to get mad. He usually just gets annoyed with me for stupid little things.

missigreg Posted:

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I always hear the engagement is the hardest time to get through. If you make it through that, you can make it through it all.

We hardly ever fight, I think since we have gotten engaged it picked up a tad bit.. Just because I am very stressed out.

Planning my e-party with my mother is HORRIFIC! At the moment I have a family fued going on. I work full time, school full time.
Trying to prepare meetings, and appointments with vendors.

AHHHHHHH SOOOOO MUCH. sorry to burst that out, needed to get it off my chest...
krispyc Posted:

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Generally, we definitely don't fight much at all but lately I have noticed we are arguing more frequently (once every few weeks approx.) than we have in the past. I attritbute it to the wedding. I know that, at least on my end, that's what it has to do with.

XFINALLYX Posted:

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you didnt have a button for more than 1 time a week haha. we argue all of the time like everyday now cause we're moving to florida and i've been jobless for 3 months (due to vacations and stuff i didnt wanna start a job to just leave) so we've been fighting majorly cause of that, i've got alot of family stuff going on so im stressed and so is he, its just bad. and we're gonna be away from eachother for almost 2 months cause he's not moving until september to florida cause of his job. eep

Katie&Chris2006 Posted:

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Huge blowups don't happen too often but we bicker a couple of times during the week. It's definitely stress/wedding related. I anticipate things will go back to normal after all the hoopla.

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