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How often do you see and call?

Ronnie&Theresa Posted:

How often do you see and call?

Your girlfriends....

I try to call all of them 2-3x a week and keep everyone in contact with daily emails!

I miss some of them so very much but everyone gets busy and we can't always spend time together....


BROWNIESSSS BEst friend!!!!!!!
Jenn524 Posted:

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I talk to my two closest girlfriends everyday either through email or phone. And I make it a point to see them over the weekends. My other girlfriends I'll talk to once or twice a week and will probably see them every other weekend.

allure Posted:

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My Bf & I speak everyday
yabbobay Posted:

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I never see them anymore since I moved 3000 miles away!!

but I talk to them alot on AIM...and via email


AND I AM SEEING EVERYONE THIS WEEKEND!!!!
Latina511 Posted:

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I see my best friend everyday since we work together. My MOH I hardly ever talk to anymore. I have a couple of new friends that I keep in touch with most of the time (you girls know who you are).

antoinette Posted:

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I try to talk everyday-every other day- and probably see them once a week.

Maribelle7777 Posted:

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I'm bad.....I don't like to be on the phone at home since I'm on the phone alllllll day long. But one friend I email with daily except weekends, and some other friends a few times a week. I try to see my BM a few times a month (not all together). I have other friends that I send jokes to and stuff but I don't talk to them alot anymore. I am seeing 2 of them on Saturday though!

BriarRose Posted:

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Well being that I live so far away from Friends and Family, we have scheduled phone chats. Literally, I carve out specific times of the week for girl chat.
I call each friend the same time on our scheduled day and we take turns everyother week calling.
But I find that schedule keeps things in perspective and we always make time for one another, and never have to utter the words, I meant to call so and so.

I find that with life going on, if you dont make time it wont get done. Not for any other reason but where do you fit it in. Especially with many of my friend and myself being new moms. or Newlyweds.

It works out great we chat during folding laundry or dusting, stuff like that. We get our chores done and gossip at the same time. Talk about your time management skills.

MrsTC Posted:

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not as often as I would like....but I do e-mail and IM my closest friends daily.

ChristineC68 Posted:

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Not too often, but I am trying to get better. It's harder now that a lot of us are married, work different schedules, have kids and live all over.

One of my oldest friends works down the street from me now so I am glad we see each other for lunch frequently. And I see a couple of friends at a weekly scrapbooking thing. But other then that, it's an effort on all of our parts to see each other.
xjulietx Posted:

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Sadly, we usually only speak once a week or so and see each other once a month or every few months. It is not for lack of trying though. Two friends are married and have busy lives with obligations. One friend who only lives down the block is also busy with family obligations and I work two jobs and am trying to plan a wedding...I wish it was easier but we aren't kids anymore. Life is tough to juggle
firegal Posted:

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My BF moved across the country when she got married so I only see her about 3-4 times a year but we e-mail and/or call each other almost every day. Her Grandma passed away last weekend so she's back in NY for the whole month. I usually speak to/e-mail the others a few times a week and see them a couple of times a month - it's so hard to see them more often because everyone has their own life now. To try and make a dinner date with another couple takes like a month between everyone's busy schedules (who's buying a house, getting married, having a baby, etc.) We all do our best and we all know that we love each other very much and that's what counts
Kim921 Posted:

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I speak to my closest friend on a daily basis. My other friends I try to email or IM on a daily basis as well. I usually see my closest friends at least once a week. Whether we meet up for lunch or a drink after work.

My friends mean the world to me!!

But I agree, it is hard to keep intouch when everyone is so busy!!
Jordan Posted:

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I speak with my sister and closest & dearest friend, every day - whether it's on the phone or thru IM or emails (my sister lives in Atlanta). I see two of my closest friends once a week for lunch (at different times)...and try to get together with them at least once every other week. Apparently I live too far for some of them but that's obviously a sore spot with me that I need to get over.

It's tough, like a lot of people said...my friends mean the world to me but it's sometimes hard to juggle everything and everyone.
eroxgirl Posted:

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I used to speak to my best friend every day, but now she's married and has a child and all the things that come with it so I only speak to her maybe twice a week. I'm lucky if I see her once a month.
MarcellaBella Posted:

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Posted by Ronnie&Theresa

Your girlfriends....

I try to call all of them 2-3x a week and keep everyone in contact with daily emails!

I miss some of them so very much but everyone gets busy and we can't always spend time together....


BROWNIESSSS BEst friend!!!!!!!


I Love you best friend! =)
Misty Posted:

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I've gotten pretty bad lately. I think it's the whole settling into married life stuff. Although, they all understand because they've gone through it recently!

I'd have to say once a week. See them? Probably once every 2 weeks. Doesn't mean I love them any less though...and vice versa.

Xelindrya Posted:

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Im ashamed.. I have one very best friend who's in Texas. I call her maybe once month if Im lucky.



I am the god mother of her son, but life is busy.. (not an excuse) I should do better.

Hell she's my MOH!!!
shamma Posted:

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We try to alternate visiting each other's home and doing potluck/girl's night. Just had one last Friday night it was awesome. We also do a lot of game nights. One of my best GF I work with, so I talk to her everyday and we go to the gym together. We don't talk as often as we used to when we were in college, but they all know there is no love loss. Some have children, some lead busier lives, so its understandable. The important thing is that we keep in touch.

I love all my GF's very much. especially this one GF that I went to HS with, her and I can go for mos and not speak and then either her or I will call and we will speak like no time has passed. That is how it is with most if not all my friends. No one runs the guilt trip, you don't call etc. Friendship like relationship needs attention.
OctBride05 Posted:

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i call my best friends about 2-3 times a week and we try to get together every saturday. the rest i call like every other week and talk to them on the computer.

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