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how should i tell fh..............

Rosalind_75 Posted:

how should i tell fh..............

that i think it would be kool to have a jack and jill bridal shower

all the bridal showers i go to the guys end up in another room drinking. plus 80% of the stuff on our registry he picked so why not have him be a part of it.

HELPPPPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!!


tia
AngnShaun Posted:

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Posted by Rosalind_75

that i think it would be kool to have a jack and jill bridal shower

all the bridal showers i go to the guys end up in another room drinking. plus 80% of the stuff on our registry he picked so why not have him be a part of it.

HELPPPPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!!


tia



you can't just come out and suggest it?

tell him you heard of something really cool... or someone on LIW said they are having a J & J Shower... and see his reaction.
Maria5117 Posted:

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just tell him that inviting guys too means more guests, which means more gifts
kris_gets_hitched Posted:

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Posted by AngnShaun


you can't just come out and suggest it?

tell him you heard of something really cool... or someone on LIW said they are having a J & J Shower... and see his reaction.



ITA. Whenever I'm like 'hmm, he might be hesitant on this idea' I always say something like 'soooo one of the LIW girls is doing blah blah blah' and gague his reaction.
GiannisWifey Posted:

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tell him that you want him and his friends there to make it one big party instead of him just coming at the end to pick up the gifts!!!!

Rosalind_75 Posted:

Re: how should i tell fh..............


Posted by AngnShaun


you can't just come out and suggest it?

tell him you heard of something really cool... or someone on LIW said they are having a J & J Shower... and see his reaction.




i like this idea
GiannisWifey Posted:

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Posted by Rosalind_75


Posted by AngnShaun


you can't just come out and suggest it?

tell him you heard of something really cool... or someone on LIW said they are having a J & J Shower... and see his reaction.




i like this idea



blame it on LIW - it always works!!!
Rosalind_75 Posted:

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Posted by GiannisWifey


blame it on LIW - it always works!!!




hahhahahaha
liw is the reason we have so many of our vendors.

KRIS!!!!!!!!!!

you bring up the j&j to your fh first and let me know how it goes.
kris_gets_hitched Posted:

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Posted by Rosalind_75


Posted by GiannisWifey


blame it on LIW - it always works!!!




hahhahahaha
liw is the reason we have so many of our vendors.

KRIS!!!!!!!!!!

you bring up the j&j to your fh first and let me know how it goes.



I can actually easily do this, because my best guy friend was asking me about if he gets to go to the shower or what. I might not even have to blame it on LIW this time!
xela Posted:

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You would just have to get creative and come up with ways to entertain the men during the shower and then you probably won't have a hard time convincing him.

Rosalind_75 Posted:

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Posted by kris_gets_hitched


I can actually easily do this, because my best guy friend was asking me about if he gets to go to the shower or what. I might not even have to blame it on LIW this time!




OMG!!!! totally forgot about my best guy friend!!!!!!
i might need to use him as an excuse too
Rosalind_75 Posted:

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Posted by xela

You would just have to get creative and come up with ways to entertain the men during the shower and then you probably won't have a hard time convincing him.




even if i dont do a jack and jill party there will be no games at my shower. im not a fan of them one bit!!! i already told my bp this.
wait........ i take that back. BINGO IS OK

if we do have the jack and jill our form of entertainment will be the food and booze. what can be better than that.lol
little j Posted:

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question -- are the games different for a J&J shower? does that mean there is no lingerie?

ive never been to one...how does it compare??? help!
kris_gets_hitched Posted:

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Posted by Rosalind_75
if we do have the jack and jill our form of entertainment will be the food and booze. what can be better than that.lol



Get a stripper.

They'll be down with the idea.
Ray8183 Posted:

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I'm having a J&J party because I said so. This one wasn't an aguement because FH just didn't care.

sugarnspice Posted:

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Posted by Ray8183

I'm having a J&J party because I said so. This one wasn't an aguement because FH just didn't care.



rae!!!
grkbarbie Posted:

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im sure he will be up for it.


buttttttttttttttt tell your girls not to buy u sexx toys n shyt . that might be embarassing for your fh lmao
luvly73 Posted:

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um i brought this up and FH got really upset because I used the term 'jack and jill' and he didn't get it. He said it sounded really dumb cause why would Jack and Jill have a bachelor/bachelorette party...

Anyways, I've brought it up more than once and he's against it so Whatever
Jna2010 Posted:

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why dont you just ask lol am i missing something?

jlbass01 Posted:

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Just ask! Lol, I asked my FH and he basically said he was ditching me...lol...even though he is chef and most of the stuff on the registry he picked out.

I think he is all talk though, cause he will be back to load up all the stuff we get

Men...

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