We want to start having kids within a year of our wedding. But if we get pregnant sooner we'll definitely be happy!
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Um we are waiting at LEAST 2 years. I am in no rush to have kids. We have to many places to travel and to much fun to have ... Not going to spend my 20's having kids. I want to enjoy being married.
Thats exactly what FH & I already did! Enjoy your fun & yourselves. FH & I have been together for 5 yrs & we are ready for everythign now. We did traveling & having fun nights out & quicky weekends and we own our homes. It was & is great. Now in my 30's Im ready for the next step. FH wants baby right away & i said after a year! So a year it will be! lol And we will still have our fun!
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we are not having children. personal decision FH and I made b4 even getting engaged.
I know an old couple who also decided not to have children....they have a wonderful life! LOL. I tell them they are my rolemodel. They travel EVERYWHERE, it's almost like they are forever young. I tried bringing this up to FH, and he immediately shot it down. So I guess I'm stuck using these childbearing hips of mine one day. Ideally we would like to conceive in August 2010, this way our baby could be born end of April, beg. of May (I really want a Taurus baby). I am so weird. Hopefully I will have twins, that way I never have to get pregnant again.
Thats funny! Im a Taurus & we are FAB! lol
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Right now we're thinking no kids, but if we did decide to have them I would want to wait 5-7 years
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I would love to wait like three years. I want to enjoy my marriage with my husband for a little while before I have kids. I have a feeling it will be sooner though also.
I'd love to wait three years but i think my clock is ticking
same here. i'm totally freaked about kids tho, so we'll see.
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we want to wait about 2 years.....
GT143EA
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like 2 years maybe longer....maybe never. I change my mind every day!
mcbride62009
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Problem between a year or two
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we are not having children. personal decision FH and I made b4 even getting engaged.
I know an old couple who also decided not to have children....they have a wonderful life! LOL. I tell them they are my rolemodel. They travel EVERYWHERE, it's almost like they are forever young. I tried bringing this up to FH, and he immediately shot it down. So I guess I'm stuck using these childbearing hips of mine one day. Ideally we would like to conceive in August 2010, this way our baby could be born end of April, beg. of May (I really want a Taurus baby). I am so weird. Hopefully I will have twins, that way I never have to get pregnant again.
we are an old couple lol FH and I are a lot older so that played into our decision as well
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we are not having children. personal decision FH and I made b4 even getting engaged.
I know an old couple who also decided not to have children....they have a wonderful life! LOL. I tell them they are my rolemodel. They travel EVERYWHERE, it's almost like they are forever young. I tried bringing this up to FH, and he immediately shot it down. So I guess I'm stuck using these childbearing hips of mine one day. Ideally we would like to conceive in August 2010, this way our baby could be born end of April, beg. of May (I really want a Taurus baby). I am so weird. Hopefully I will have twins, that way I never have to get pregnant again.
we are an old couple lol FH and I are a lot older so that played into our decision as well
lol. When I said 'old couple' I meant that they are in their 60's and well retired. But they were young when they got married and they still decided not to go that route. By the way I love Porto Fino!
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we are not having children. personal decision FH and I made b4 even getting engaged.
I know an old couple who also decided not to have children....they have a wonderful life! LOL. I tell them they are my rolemodel. They travel EVERYWHERE, it's almost like they are forever young. I tried bringing this up to FH, and he immediately shot it down. So I guess I'm stuck using these childbearing hips of mine one day. Ideally we would like to conceive in August 2010, this way our baby could be born end of April, beg. of May (I really want a Taurus baby). I am so weird. Hopefully I will have twins, that way I never have to get pregnant again.
we are an old couple lol FH and I are a lot older so that played into our decision as well
lol. When I said 'old couple' I meant that they are in their 60's and well retired. But they were young when they got married and they still decided not to go that route. By the way I love Porto Fino!
I know but FH has many years on some of your FHs and I have 10 years on a lot of you
Portofino has great italian food at decent prices
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lol. When I said 'old couple' I meant that they are in their 60's and well retired. But they were young when they got married and they still decided not to go that route. By the way I love Porto Fino!
I know but FH has many years on some of your FHs and I have 10 years on a lot of you
Portofino has great italian food at decent prices
I love it when they come out w. the dessert tray!!! Too bad I'm always full
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We don't have an official timeline...i would really liek to get a house first. I had a miscarriage last may so i still have a lot of testing to go through before we even try to concieve anyway..so maybe 2 or 3 years after we're married..plus im finishing school as well and would like to be set financially!
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FH and I have been wanting to have kids for so long already, and we plan on trying right after we're married. We might wait a few months, but thats about it!
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Three years - we want to be settled in a house by the time we have kids
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Posted by Soon-to-be-Moore
I don't even know if I want kids, but I guess I'll have to decide sooner than later since I'll be 30 when I get married
omg, me too exactly.
Ann 52409
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very very soon.. probably honeymoon if its up to FH
lanamanitta
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Immediately.
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I would like to be in a house so hopefully we will buy something soon after the wedding. But, we dont' plan on waiting too long.
MarciaA
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Within a year at least. We've been together for a while so we're ready
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Ideally, with my original timeline i wanted to be married for 2 years and than have a baby, butI want to have my first baby before I am 30, so I think within the 1st year...although I have been itching for a long time and I am already dreaming about it. FH really wants a baby too and so many of our friends have babies now. Godwilling I want us to be young parents and I want my kids to grow up surrounded by their grandparents